Eduardo Asked:
I am in love with a woman that says she is in love with me. We have been chatting on cam and without cam and also gave to each other our email and yahooIM username and password 3 weeks ago because she told me that she was insecure about me and I also about her but as I see it she was saying and acting in ways that seem she was having an interest on another man. Two days ago we talked about she feels that I do not trust and have confidence in her. I told her that when I ask her a specific question she answers with a question, she also jumps topics of what I am trying to talk to her about or when I notice what she says her actions do not agree, she avoids the question I have asked her, and say just enough by not being specific about questions I ask her. I also told her that her actions and avoiding specific questions when we are viewing each other on cam, that I notice her actions as if she is also viewing another male interest but she repeatedly tells me she is not. She ask me what do I want to happen with us by going on with our love and relationship and I told her that we should keep going and learn from the misunderstandings of what is happening with our views with each other and learn from it. She took a little while to answer the question and then said that she was confused and wish me happiness and health and could not tell me straight out that our relationship is at an end. I told her that if she wanted to delete her name from my yahoo IM then I left it up to her. We agree to break up, and when I signed out of the IM she signed in my IM and then I checked to see if she deleted name and she did not. Today she texts me telling me sorry that she is so guilty about what she said to me and ask for my forgiveness and it was ok if I could not then it is ok at least she already said sorry to me. I reply back to her text and told her that I have no reason to not forgive her, and she has the freedom to make the choices and find the answers she needs to know if she made the right decision for her and her daughter. I do not know what she wants from me, or even if she really loves me as she has told me before. I do not know what to expect or do next concerning how I feel and if I should give her as she told me just to love her. Can you help me understand what is going on with her, and give me some scenarios to help me?
- Eduardo (NY, USA)
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