Sneha Asked:
“Hi, i am very sensitive and if someone in my relation tell something rudly to me i feel bad. I know its not a big thing but still i get disturb for some time. I want me to be free from these things. Before my marriage i was very happy and i used to ignore all the things that is not important for me but now after marriage i become upset on every small issues. I want me to be free from this. I want that anyone whoever tell something to me which is unpleasent according to me i will not care about that. It was earlier but now i get upset on small thing. Please suggest me some tips. Please help me to get ride of this.”
- Sneha (23, India)
Every person is well aware of how true and powerful the quote “the tongue is mightier than the sword” can be. Hurtful words can create more lasting and devastating pain and suffering than any wound inflicted by a sword. One of the secrets to increase romance and happiness in your relationship is a couple’s ability to avoid emotionally cutting words, while presenting less than flattering feedback or information to your partner (sometimes referred to as constructive criticism). By doing this you will be able to get your message across to your partner without getting the messenger — and your relationship — killed along the way!
