Mariana Asked Relationship Experts:

“Hello, I love this guy for years we have kissed before but we never go out …he has never told me he loved me now he has a girlfriend but every time I talk to him he gives me eye contact and smiles at me I love him so much plus he is my cousin I know its very random but I can’t help it I’ve tried to forget him I’ve had another boyfriend after him to try to forget him but he is allways in my mind help please.”

- Mariana (12) … read more

Anna Asked Relationship Experts:

“I think I’m loosing interest in my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for almost a year now, and lately I feel like I’m not as “in love” with him as I used to be. Like I used to get excited when he would call or text me, and when he didn’t I would spend every second wondering why he wasn’t. Now I really couldn’t care less about either. I don’t want to feel this way, I love him, or at least I think I do, i mean I want to. What do you think I should do?”

- Anna (15) … read more

Josh Asked Relationship Experts:

“I’ve been dating this woman for 18 months. On Sunday i got mad at her because i felt she was criticizing me about my clothes so I went to bed and didn’t tell her why I was mad until the next day. Anyway, after I told her that she hurt my feelings she said that she doesn’t sugar coat things and everything she said was fact. She also said my attitude was funky all day Sunday. So I let it go. However, she’s been acting strange all week. When i text her she gives me one word answers. And I’ve call her twice but she didn’t return my calls. She texted me at 2 in the morning last night saying that she was away from her phone which I don’t buy that she was away from her phone for 5 hours. I asked why shes ignoring me and if she was mad and alright. She said that she hasn’t been ignoring me and that she was fine. I asked her to go out tomorrow night and she didn’t respond. … read more

Kaitlyn Asked Relationship Experts:

“My boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. We were fighting a lot and the breakup was understood by both of us. Since then, we’ve talked about our issues and I’ve told him I want to work on things because all the good we had is worth a second chance. I rarely reach out to him, but he casually reaches out to me a few times a week with generic how is it going questions. Multiple times he has gotten drunk and told me he loves me, wants to get back together, I make him happier than anyone, I’m amazing “95% of the time”, that looking back I made him so happy – but he just “doesn’t know”. When he is sober he will only commit to chatting casually making a point to say it doesn’t mean we are getting back together. I can tell when I’m with him that he does really love me, but why can’t he figure out what he wants? Do I keep this up and let him figure it out or do I just let it go? My heart has already been broken, but I feel like I can’t ignore him and I can’t let him go. I don’t know what to do. Please help.”

- Kaitlyn(25, Chicago, IL) … read more

HS Asked Relationship Experts:

“i have a relationship with a boy.i havent had any relationship with any guy before. we have been talking to each other from 7 months now. but we both have been meet in tution clases 3 or 4 years ago. he is good at sometimes but he doesnt like to meet me or tell his or my friends about our relationship. he says , after the marriage i can tell anyone about him. he usually wants to make me jealous by saying about other girls n stuff and also irritating me by saying about a crush that i used to have years ago. i’m having a doubt that weather he really wants me or not. by the way he dsn’t hav ny intrest of meeting me yet.but we used to talk thru phone and he asks me to turn on sexualy through phone at times. thoz times he treats me good. i really love him. but when i ask him, he answrs that he dont know.and now he says he wants to live alone.and to be alone.what should i do?”

- HS (24)

Isabel Asked Relationship Experts:

“I’m confused I just started dating this girl.. I just don’t know what is going on! We started off great, she isn’t in the same state as me.. But we have met a couple of years back. We made it official but have only been dating for a little over two weeks.. I’ve been single for awhile now and she just got out of a relationship.. But anyway we would text and call each other all the time, she would say she misses me and I would the same.. Things got a little weird a few days ago and she started being very short in conversations and would hardly talk. Anyway I saw a post on Facebook from her.. So I texted her because it was obviously about her ex, I let her know that I am here for her and that I’m honest and respectful I just don’t want to suffer for others mistakes.. She said that she needs some time to clear her heart and that she needs time to think and that she needs me time.. She said I shouldn’t worry because she will call me when she gets better and that she is sorry! … read more

Hardik Asked Relationship Experts:

“I was Best friends with a girl since 4 yrs we were awesome together everyone saw us as a good couple, i used to like her from the start , after she broke up with his bf , she came close to me and we really started hitting it and got emotionally attached as well as a little physical . After that due to her studies we broke up bt still were best friends and never used to date anyone but still i used to fight on some occasions for a better commitment from her although we do used to enjoyy eact others company a lot , after another 6 mnths i went to another city for a job and she came back in my life looking for love again . I gave her the support but then we had a lot of issues and fights . She was not ready for commitment and i was having trust issues since it was a long distance . We fought a lot over petty issues and after some time she stopped taking interest and caring and told me to move on as i used to keep asking and make her feel loved . Now she went out with a guy i didnt used to like and i told not to do that so she responded very badly and took it as i was dominating her . I decided and told i wnt to leave , she wasnt bothered , she didnt tell me to leave bt she didnt even try to stop me . Now she talk with that guy daily and i feel jealous and want her back . I really love her and want her back . Currently we are in no contact mode . What should i do next ? Does she love me , will she comeback . Lastly she said she wasnt interested and didnt have feelings for me and had lost the feelings , she said she tried but she couldnt get the feelings and wanted me to move on . So what next ?? Help”

- Hardik (19, Mumbai, India) … read more

Just Wants the Truth Asked Relationship Experts:

“I have been dating this guy for a little over a month now. In the beginning, of course he was very charming and sweet. But what really got me was him saying that he wants open and honesty and friendship in a relationship, going as far as to share intimate details of his life with me. As time progresses, he texts less, has stopped calling altogether, and tells me that he has a gut feeling about me that tells him maybe we would be better off as friends. This is classic player behavior. I want to know a) how to avoid this in the future, and b) if there is any way of getting him to admit that he just used me for sex, so that I can have closure and move on?”

- Just Wants the Truth (25, Washington, DC, US) … read more

Amy Asked Relationship Experts:

“Why does my ex boyfriend keep breaking up with me and then want to get back together after we apart for 6 weeks? he is handsome and could find another woman to have sex with easily. When we are in the relationship he seems unhappy. he ended it 3 times, I do not contact him at all while we a re separated and do not expect to reunite. but he always calls 6 weeks after we break up? whenever we reunite, he never has a good reason for why he broke up with me in the first place? only on one breakup did he admit to having sex with another woman. So what do you think?”

- Amy (35, CrownPpoint, IN) … read more

He Asked Relationship Experts:

“I feel my girlfriend is not being totally honest with me.  She gets angry when I ask questions about her past but wants me to accept her ex-boyfriends’ having her phone number. They do reach out to her from time to time. What should I do?”

- He (39, Newark) … read more