Popular music, blockbuster movies and best-selling books have sold us a bill of goods. Think of all those classic love songs that, though recorded decades ago, still receive regular radio play: “All you need is love;” “Love will keep us together;” and “Love will see us through.” Go to your local Cineplex and you’re sure to find Cameron Diaz or Drew Barrymore falling in love, then out of love, and then back in love again. According to our culture, if two people love each other enough, they can work out anything. If your marriage is unhappy, then the first thing you need to do is love your partner more.

