Tatiana Asked:

“Hi My name is Tatiana,Im 14 and I have been dealing with an on going relationship problem for a while & I’m at the point where I dont know what to do anymore. Well, its this guy Donell & I have known him since December 2009 and we met because his step brother and my cousin date. So we first met when he got on my bus and rode to the library. I was just talking and having fun and I turned back around and I saw what looked like the finest creature EVER. But me being the type of female I am I didnt let him know I was intrested but when I was walking up to the front of the bus he grabbed my arm and I just looked at him like he was crazy and sat down. Then he asked to see my phone and to sit next to him. I did and we just started a conversation and while I was talking to him he seemed like the most perfect guy ever. Good GPA, played sports, respectful all of that. When we got off the bus we went to the library and an hour later we were in the elevator and he asked me for a hug and I gave him one and looked up at him and he kissed and we started making out. After the first time we couldnt stop In the library aisles, elevators EVERYWHERE. When I was about to leave he gave me his number and I txted him. After that day we started talking and people were saying we were the cutest couple. We went to sleep on the phone together Christmas Eve and I talked to him ALL Christmas Day & On New Years, Valentines Day & Everyday. In Late January I let him take my virginity because I thought he was the one. But After New Years All the cute good mornings and i miss you’s stopped and I couldnt figure out why. On his Facebook page he was married to some girl that he said was his bestfriend but the had pictures like together forever and stuff on there which was odd but I was falling in love with him so I didnt care. But I askd him multiple times did he have a girlfriend and he said NO everytime. But in March my BFF called me like ” You know Donell has a girlfirend right” and I’m like how you know she was like Facebook I was like was it recent pictures and post she said yeah. SO my other BFF volunteered to message his girlfriend and tell her he was cheating on her & she did and his girlfriend broke up with him and he called me automatically knowing I had something to do with it so for the rest of March and April we werent cool but for some reason everytime I saw him I ignored him but he seemed to want to talk to me. But in Early May he called me and told me to meet him at the park so I did and we discussed everything and we started talking again but nobody could know. But Donell and I have had sex over 6 times and the most recent time I thought I was pregnant with his baby. After I told him I wasnt I havent talked to him since. My real questions are If he has a girlfriend he is “IN LOVE” with why does he continue to mess with me & Why would he still keep me around.??? Truthfully I LOVE HIM and IM IN LOVE WITH HIM and I will ALWAYS be there for him it just hurts to know he’s not mine. Does he really love either one of us or is he just confused.?? PLEASE HELP I THINK ABOUT THIS 24/7 and it only hurts more.”

- Tatiana (14, Detroit, MI)

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Samantha Asked:

“Me and my boyfriend broke up about 3 months ago and i still have the same feelings for him and stuff and he doesnt like me at all anymore, in fact he hates me & we once loved each other and we were both our firsts and everything, and now he hates me and i’m not sure what to do about it. All my friends think he still likes me. Please help me i’m not sure what to do!”

- Samantha

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Baron Asked:

“So I don’t know how to put my prob in words….but here’s an attempt. All throughout 11th grade I was never social and kept away from girls, its not that I am a geeky kind of guy. I mean that I haven’t gone out with a girl yet because I don’t want to fall into crushes and all that. I am just another average guy. So this started about 6 months ago… near half way through my 12th grade……there was this girl in my class and we started to chat over the net and then I mustered some courage ( I am really shy in front of girls) and started talking to her and soon we were nice if not good friends. She knew all about my crushes and well we used to laugh about it. So keeping it short I am totally in love with her. It’s not that puppy love kind of thing, I have had my fair share of crushes and limerances too but this is different. The feelings have never been more intense. But I know that she won’t ever say yes and considers me nothing more than a friend and I know that I can’t live without her. And it was only a while ago that I learned that she likes a guy too. Now this may seem complicated but here’s a short summary…: she likes the guy who knows that she likes him but he doesn’t like her and the girl knows that. Moreover the girl also knows that I truly love her and yet she won’t say yes to me because she still likes that guy. I really want her to be happy, even if it means that she’s with some other guy but its killing me inside knowing that she’ll never be in my arms, that she cant be mine ever. And right now I am so messed up that I don’t know what to do, whether to cry or to laugh, whether to smile or to frown. I don’t even feel alive right now and I have cut myself 5 times just to feel the pain and know that I am still alive, that I am still breathing. I have even gone to the brink of killing myself several times and ending the pain but have always stopped cause I don’t want her to think that its cause of her. I just! have no idea what to do next, I don’t even know what’s right or wrong anymore, I don’t even want to live anymore. Please help me.”

- Baron

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