“Don’t be so busy making promises to everyone else that you forget to keep the promises you made to yourself.”
LoVe LuCy

Sometimes I feel that there are so many messages flying around my head, with ideas and concepts that can create such magic in my life.

How do I know what to do?

Which ones are the best ones for me? And if I know, when is the best time to pursue them?

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“You don’t have to know how it is possible just know that it IS possible.”
LoVe LuCy

When we make decisions, at any given moment; we can take the uncertainties out of our minds, simply by tapping into our thoughts, and asking “what will best serve my purpose, my passion and my peace of mind?”

Sure, we have to think of the details dependent on what the circumstances, but when it comes down to it, the details can actually take care of themselves, once we have our highest good in mind, with our intentions for authentic greatness.

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Like everything else, relationships go through cycles and phases…sometimes relationships face really long, long, harsh, lonely droughts, or painfully drawn-out intense periods, or perhaps you’re currently enjoying the “pink cloud” effect of a new love! Wherever you find yourself, I am here to help you get ready for Spring, the time to come out of the darkness into the light, renew, fluff up, or just take yourself in a fresh direction! Here’s your checklist so you can get started right away.

Relationships of the romantic kind typically fall into three categories: ME, THEM and WE.

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Just days from ringing in the New Year, many of us are sitting, contemplating what exactly the next 365 are going to look like.

In speaking to many of my close friends, and being there for many of my own experiences, it seems as though 2010 had been quite a chaotic series of events; however, all equally important in the marriage of all the great to be in this new magical year.

Of course, with ups must come downs.  Though we know that we learn best through strong messages being given to us, sometimes, they are not in the most magical of forms.

What is truly amazing, throughout anything that we go through, is that sometimes, going through or living in experiences that truly don’t resonate with our soul; allows us to take a much more motivated stand in jumping up and shouting out in commitment to take life’s passions more seriously, and making a change, for the better, going forward.

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Here’s the deal. Most of us approach relationship like drunken sailors, intoxicated with the ideas and fantasies we have about relationship as opposed to the sobering reality of them, and desperate (or lonely, as the case may be) like your ship has just come in—or is about to leave port. Not a great strategy if you want a great relationship.

So, get a piece of paper and write these things down:
1)First, what do you want? (spell it out)
2)What are you willing to do about it?

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Here’s the deal; the facts are in. At least 50% of marriages don’t make it—which, if you’re a gambler, is slightly better than a crap shoot – this is what I told RadarOnline.com, when asked for a comment about Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom’s marriage.

And it would seem obvious to many people that marrying someone you have only known a few weeks would increase your odds of failure…among other things. So perhaps a better question to ask is not what are the downsides, but rather…why? Why get married? So you can have a party? Show up your sister on TV because you are profoundly insecure or desperate for ratings? What’s the rush? It’s not like love has a shelf life. Unless one is deeply religious, which is not evident in this case (correct me if I am wrong; I don’t think so), there are so few reasons to rush into nuptials before we have taken time to do a minimum of due diligence.

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So, whatever the reason, you’re on the prowl for a significant other. Maybe you feel you’re ready for a commitment. Maybe you’re looking for companionship. So you feel like your “Mate-dar” (your ability to suss out a great mate) is in full force, turned up top notch. But the truth is – even if you have the purest of intentions for seeking out a relationship – nobody’s Mate-dar is perfect.

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Relationship Rescue

by Phillip C. McGraw, PhD.

Introduction:

A book that clearly demonstrates the lack of understanding of the successful relationship is Relationship Rescue by Phillip C. McGraw, Ph.D. What is so sad about this book is that he is so close to the answer yet still unable to understand. Today he is the highest profile psychologist in the industry but that doesn’t mean he comes close to really helping troubled relationships.

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“If you try looking back to see if your opponents are nearing you, you have already lost the race.”
Love LuCy

Not only do we wonder if we can get all million things done in as little time as possible; we seem to wonder if we are up to speed in our lives, as compared to others.
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“If you are wondering? It’s Possible!”
Love LuCy

POP!
(Problem or Possibility)

Several times in our lives, we will go through something pretty problematic, it may be hard to believe that in it, there is a blessing, somewhere underneath it all.
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