Kevin Asked:
“i have been with my wife for 14 years married for 12 we had a open relationship for most of our life together and everything seemed to be fine neither of us made a complaint about it we had set limits and agreed that as long as our hearts were in the right place it seemed fine but for the last 3 years she has been with this guy whom was well informed the she was only in it for the sex but as time passed she spent more time with him and it caused a strain on our relationship and when i asked her nicely several times to cut back she would play it off and find reasons to spend more time with him and then i started getting more firm about them spending less time together with him and she said that by me wanting that i was driving her into his arms and things got worse from there well i ended up wanting to leave her and when i tried to she begged me not to leave and that she wanted to work things out with me so the three of us had a talk and she made it clear to him that she never intended to leave me and i said that if we were going to work things out he would have to be out of our lives and so he left and things got so much better then later on down the road she came up with a reason to talk to him again and said i had nothing to worry about and soon we were right back to having the same troubles again.
