Erick Asked:

“well i have a Girlfriend that i really like alot, and we tell each other those three words “ILY” everynight before we finish textin n heading to bed.. but sometimes i feel like she dosent live up to what she says with those words.. like she only wants to hang out when friends are also going. and at school we dont hold hands just walk her to her classes and hug she doesnt wanna kiss at school but when we are out of school we kiss.. and sometimes i dont know what i did wrong and she wont text me goodnight.. and she tells me she loves me alot. but i dont know if she really meaning it or if its just a boyfriend she wants.. like nothin serious shes lookin for. and she’s mostly always short answerin me on texts.. it just feels akward and feel like cutting it off but when we hang out i feel like she really is being true. but i dont know what to do.. give it time or call it quits before i get more into her?”

- Erick (17, Joshua, Texas, US)

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Nolan Asked:

“Sorry if this is long but this problem has been culminating for sometime. First let me tell you
about myself, I rate myself a “7″ in looks, i am apparently smart ( IQ between 140 and 150) i was home schooled all my life so my social skills are … not that great.. but around the right people i can really loosen up and have fun it’s just with most people i don’t. Because of a hereditary inheritance i struggle with chronic depression and anxiety(my dad struggled with it his whole life my brother as well) but i’ve been seeking help for it . Now my question..
A couple years ago at the job a was working at the time i was pretty much known as the loner i didn’t do anything with the people i worked with i got along fine with everybody i just was not the guy girls saw as boyfriend material then out of no were one of the female employee’s asked me to hang out!
this girl was gorgeous, we took walks all over the town we lived in every park, every lake, every woods we could go too we were inseparable eventually we made it official and started dating

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Rosco Asked:

“After 8 yrs. and 3 children later for the 3rd time splitting up and our 2nd time when we split up it lasted 8 months and she put me on child support. well we reconciled and had 2 good yrs but now this time after splitting up and only going on 2 wks apart my ex already has another guy in her life. so my question is should i make an effort to win her back or just realize its time to end it and continue with my own life?”

- Rosco (25)

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Whenever we enter a relationship with another person, there are essentially only two outcomes.  One is that the relationship lasts, and the other is that it ends.  And save for the one that ends in a successful marriage, most of them will face the latter fate.  And when this happens, we are left with one of the toughest predicaments life presents us.  Should we stay friends with our exes?  The short answer is this: not really.

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Hamed Asked:

“How can i get back with my ex girlfriend?

i have been with my ex for 8 years now we practically grew up together we had our bad and good times but in late 08 her family decided to back to the U.K she stayed and the first visit to U.K was fine she went for like a week but in dec of 08 things started to change we had alot of arguments and issues regarding trust like i love her and do trust her but i get very worried when i called and she would not answer me properly or something anyways after that she was supposed to come back before new years but the day she was going to fly she decided not to come and break up with me because she needed time to think we sorted it out eventually and end of january she did come back and the plan was she would come stay for like 3 months and then go back to the U.K and i would follow in the summer she stayed we sorted everything and got engaged it was an amazing week and after the engagement she left after the engagement by one day the first two weeks that she was there all was good she was happy but after that it started with her being moody and whenever i called while she was out with friends she would get angry that i asked questions like where you going, what time would u be home and stuff like that etc. i know i did pressure her and that was wrong but suddenly she decided we can’t work out and that she was sorry but its better like this and that she wants different life so forth i tried to email she emailed once but now nothing and i hear that she is having an awesome time going to london cambridge , and she didnt know what she was thinking when she got engaged i am sooo hurt its been 2weeks now and i dont know what to do my i cant contact her because she has a different number now my only way is email but i dont want to email her all the time please tell me what u think and if you want me to explain more i will
Thank you”

- Hamed (Bahrain)

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I have great advice for everyone who needs to get control of their love life. Ready? You need to…forgive. That’s right, to have a successful love life after a break up or divorce, you must forgive your ex. Before you protest, read these 7 tips to help you forgive. Forgiveness will not only free you of your ex, but benefit you and your future relationships.

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All four of them where sitting in the hot tub at John’s house, consoling their frustrations at Kyle with alcohol and anger. John noticed Kyle calling for the 5th time that day and finally picked up the phone. “Who is over there!?, who is with you!?” John sighs a bit “No one, Kyle…” Marie grabs the phone from John. “You fucking asshole!! Fucking all of us all at the same time! Without a fucking condom!” she breathes violently waiting for a response but Kyle has already hung up. Terry laughs approvingly since she is one of the many girls Kyle has lied to. He has led each girl on with promises of love and a serious relationship. Finally Kyle’s fragile house built of lies collapsed around him and even his guy friends feel alienated .

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