Sure, sure sure – you already know everything there is to know about how to have great sex. Are you really sure about that? Well keep an open mind and see if you learn anything new. Believe it or not, great sex is incredibly subjective and might not be what you think it is for your partner.
I have yet to meet a man who hasn’t thought – or told me – that they are the next best thing since slice bread when it comes to making love. Interestingly enough, I often hear a very different story from their partner – but I will leave that subject for another day. The point of the story however; is these men are not lying, they actually believe what they are thinking or saying is true. The problem here is that great sex for you might not be considered great sex for someone else. Why? Because great sex is truly in the eye of the of the beholder. Some men think they are Casanova because they can “last” for over 5 minutes or they bring their partner to multiple orgasms (which, hey, I must admit is not a bad thing). But the key to having great sex with your partner is knowing what exactly your partner wants, needs and likes. And it might be very different than what you believe is great sex and what you think they want, need and like.