“If you’re happy, and you know it, share with friends.”
- LoVe LuCy
Do you ever notice anytime you ask people how they are, or what they have been up to, it seems as though their answers can be a little less than excited?

Expert advice to get your relationships back on track
“The more you try to be like others, the less you like yourself.”
LoVe LuCy
In today’s world, it seems like we are wanting bigger, better, more than ever.
We seem, sometimes, to feel as though the more we have, the better we are.
Focusing on all we have surrounding us, rather than who we have surrounding us, and trying to attract more material possessions to make ourselves feel better, or feel that we are better, because of them, we can overlook the true sense of our true selves.

“The scariest thing I have ever done was what someone else wanted me to do.”
LoVe LuCy
We can claim that we are striving to make our way to success. We can think of, in our minds, all that we want to attain and all that we know would make us so happy.
It is great to have a vision and it is certainly important to be sure that you are taking steps to reach your dream in your life. We know that we want to be the best we can be and have the best of everything in our lives but why is it that, some times, we look at all that surrounds us and wonder what we are doing wrong that is not allowing us all that we are wishing for?

“However you look at it, is how you will live it, no matter what it is ”
LoVe L.S.
Whether it is the dreary Monday morning after a relaxing and very stress free weekend, the end of the month when the bills are due, or two hours before that blind date your best friend set you up with her cousin…
We all have our very own way of looking at things.
We also tend to have a habit of looking at things in the same particular way, no matter what the issue is.
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Nostalgia.
One of the nicest things, one of which magic brings.
How wonderful it used to feel when there seemed to be no such thing as time and our days were spent dilly dallying until dusk.
As a child, I remember waking up as early as 6 am with my sister, jumping out of bed, bathing suits on with flips and towels, and off to the local park pool we went.

We all remember the Doris Day Famous words in her song.
I assume, if you are my age or any older.
Whatever will be will be.
Sometimes we want things so much and put so much emphasis on wanting these things, we end up with the opposite.
So you ever notice when you want so badly to fall in love, attain financial freedom, lose weight, get a promotion- you name it, you don’t end up getting it?

“I had a habit of giving my habits life, realizing they were taking away from mine.”
by LuCy sMiLeS
We all have habits. Some more than others. Some of us have less bad habits than we did before. Maybe we have more now than we ever thought we would.
Maybe we don’t realize what habits have formed that are hindering our health.

“You can manifest anything your heart desires, as long as you have the desire to follow your heart”
by LuCy sMiLeS
Ok. We have talked about it.
The Law Of Attraction.
The Gift of “ask and you shall receive.”
We can spell it out in so many ways.
How we get what we wish, and how we manifest what our thoughts are.

“Love is never an issue when you give, with nothing looked for in return”
by LuCy sMiLeS
In life, we can gather many things as measurable. Many of us gather everything as measurable. There is the term “give or take” that is used in the human language that many of us hear when we are casually measuring a situation in ‘time, dollars, or items”, depending on the conversation.
For instance, we may hear someone discussing meeting up with another and responding “I will be there at 4pm, give or take 5 minutes..” Or “we can barter off the item at $30.00, give or take a few bucks.”
In a life of measuring things, much chaos can come when we spend so much time measuring how much we have done for others, and not feeling like they have perhaps measured up to our expectations.

“If we can learn to take all the “this and that clutter” not working for us, out of our minds,
perhaps we can start seeing what is right in front of us,
and learn to love it! by LuCy sMiLeS
It is always something, it seems. There is always that one or two things going on in our lives, that takes the forefront focus, leaving much beauty on the back burner.
You know- the bills, the job, the stress of children’s grades, the issues within our relationships that we wish just wouldn’t be issues.
Just the “this and that” that seems to be “all that” that is going on.
If you look at your life, and what you have going on, and who you have in it, what is your focus?
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