Sofia Asked:

“I met my bf on net and he’s from florida and i live in philipines, we are 2 far from eachother, i really want to see him and he told me that he loves me, we both believe in our relationshp.
But were 2 far and everythngs complicated, he’s older than me he’s 17 and iam 13. I get scared that one day he may nut love me anymore cause he mght find other girls. I’m scared to loose him. Cause ilove him, i can feel it and i want to hold his hands and hug him, i dont knw what to do to my life. What am i going to do?”

- Sofia (13, Phillipines)

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Beth Asked:

“My question is I love this woman but she attached and is very unhappy in her relationship. We dated for about a year but something happened to her after she told me she was filing so I did something very wrong and now regret this but asking will she try to connect with me in the future after we had shared some beautiful words and feelings together ? Even telling each other we had love for each other.”

- Beth (56, Nicholasville, KY)

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Steve Asked:

“I met this girl when i was 13. She was eleven. She was a friend of a friend and i saw her occasionally throughout the next few years. 3 or 4 times i guess. I had a huge crush on her. about 3 years later i somehow ended up talking to her. It was random… this is all pretty irrelevant. What i’m getting at is we ended up together. We were together for about 5 years. She was perfect and i was so in love. I still am. She broke up with me about a year ago. I think she wanted some freedom. Now we talk again. One day she’ll tell me she loves me still, and she wishes things were the way they used to be. And then the next day i’ll feel like i mean nothing to her. I mean, she still asks me to to hang out and everything but when were together she seems uninterested in me. Or she’ll kiss me, and then when i kiss her she seems like its off putting and i made her feel awkward or something. Why does she act as though she doesn’t love me, but tell me she still does?”

- Steve (21, Edison, NJ)

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Pay Asked:

“Im 13 years old and a girl and am going out with a 16 year old boy.I met him throught my best friend. Iv slept in the same bed with him. (thats all we did sleep together no sex) and im in love with him. You may belive im too young to be in love but trust me. This is love. The second my parents found out we werent allowed to see eachother ever again. hes been my boyfriend since August 2010 by secret and my parents just found out we were going out again. The only way we can see eachother is behind my parents back. I wanna be able to see him. He recently gave me a promise ring, and graduates in 2013. He promised to stay in the state with me and next year we willbe in high school so there is no way my parents can keep us fully apart. I want to know what to do. I love him so much and he loves me. Why cant my parents just understand that.”

- Pay (13, GA)

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Sophia Asked:

“ive been with my boyfriend for 2years, im three months pregnant and hes at uni in his last year. he said he would drop out of uni but i persuaded him not to, i said he can do both by the time the baby comes he would have finished. but its not working out.

ive suffered through the whole 3months hes moved back into uni halls now i see him 2 times a week roughly i dont mind though. the problem is hes going out twice or more a week which i dont mind aslong as he spends time with me and takes me out but he doesnt.

hes always talking to girls via text facebook but he always says there friends so its okay but im not allowed to talk to boys i used to talk to random people on facebook i didnt mind i was safe i didnt gve out personal details im just a friendly person i stoped doing this for him he wasnt happy. now i dont even talk to those boys that i know that are friends because of him but i have to let him.

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Rawr Asked:

“I want to love him.
I dated this guy for 11 months, things on my end just started going sour in between, certain things he did just started to annoy me. Whenever I’d try to talk to him about things he’d focus on one bad thing I said and wouldn’t look at the big picture. I no longer wanted to have sex with him, sometimes I didn’t want to be around him. Eventually we broke up, I wasnt ready but he kind of forced it out of me, I couldnt honestly tell him I still wanted to be with him. I can still see a future with him its just that he’s so immature at times I can’t stand it. He also acts like he has no common sense. He’s always blaming me for his sexual frustration, we’re trying to be friends, but he’ll get mad at me and say that he doesn’t want to be friends anymore and he wont talk to me anymore and I have to talk him out of it. He acts like I have no feelings at all, I wish he was the one. He can be very sweet and would never cheat on me or abuse me, but its just his mentality that bugs me. I have all hopes out that hell be the one in the end, he just needs to grow up. Am I foolishly thinking?”

- Rawr (18, SC)

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Tiya Asked:

“Well i dated this guy for 4 and a half years. things went smoothly for the 4 years but he started going out alot with his friends and this girl. he eventually broke up with me 6 months later so that he could be with her. it was hard but i let him go because she is what he wanted. but although he was dating her, he still kept calling and texting me to check how i am. recently he told me that they have been having some problems and that she controls him too much. it was not my place to tell him what to do with his relationship.

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Confused Asked:

“So I met this guy last july and he lives a couple towns over. We have talked on the phone and in person a lot. We both fell in love. Then I find out he has a gf still even though he said they broke up. I was upset he lied and broke my trust but he said he only did it because he didn’t want to lose me and that he was being selfish. He doesn’t want to be with her and hasn’t since we started getting serious. But he feels he can’t break up with her yet because her father JUST died. He doesn’t want to crush her anymore but I feel so bad that he’s with her. I love him and he loves me but should I wait for him or what? Idk what to do.”

- confused (16)

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Johanna Asked:

“3 years ago when I was 15 I fell in love with my ex. He was 17 at the time. He had his flaws but besides those he was the perfect fit for me. (in my mind he still is). I belonged to a church where his uncle is the main pastor and their rules are you can’t be dating. Ridiculous I know. But we still flirted and just to ourselves we were a couple. Of course we never held hands or kissed during that time but one night, after 7 months of dating, I snuck him in my house and because of all the bottled up love and passion we made love. A month later my parents found out because I wrote him a letter but left it in my pocket. Stupid I know. So we were forbidden to even be in the same room together for 9 months. We didn’t speak. But at times we sent notes to each other. We fought for what we wanted. Finally after 9 months we got to finally talk to each other. 2 months later they send me and my family to another state so they could be pastors of that state. I know they did it to separate us. after a year and a half we left the church and moved back to Jersey. During that time I texted him, called him, we talked and loved each other. I remained faithful never cheated and I know he never cheated on me. To me it was true love. So when we came back We spent 3 beautiful months together. On September 14, 2011 of this year we celebrated our 3 years together. But a month and 2 days later I find out his family is talking bad about the church my family made so I sent his cousin a message through Facebook . Let me add here that his family including his cousin made our lives a living HELL. They humiliated us treated us bad. Everything. So when he sent me a text saying “How could you write something like that?!” My message to his cousin wasn’t even that bad. I just told her to leave us alone and I brought up that she was with a married guy (by the way she’s my age). So I was angry and felt betrayed so I said “Tell your family Congradualtions that they got what they wanted. We’re done.” After that he didn’t send me another text. The next day I sent him one. He told me he is sorry it ended this way but we’re done. it hurts. it hurts him to think about me. I said I was sorry that I didn’t mean it. I kept texting him till the next day and he told me to not text or call him anymore. So I stopped for 2 days and then i sent him a text asking if he is ready to talk. he said he isn’t he’s hurt and time is helping. he has future set and that he loves me but its over. I want to know if thats true. It’s killing. Is he saying what he really feels or what?”

- Johanna (18, Kearny, New Jersey)

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Kelly Asked:

“I met this guy like 6 monthes ago in my college class and we started dating like a 2 monthes ago. A week ago I told him I loved him. Ever since then he’s been acting weird. we have a long distance relationship and we usually text eachother at night when we finally have “free” time. well the past week he has not been really texting me except once every couple days saying he loves me that he knows he gets in weird moods but is not because of me. He just does not want to fight and i always tell him i want to be there for him and the cycle is continuing to go on. I know there is not much i can do to spice things up in a long distance relationship right? Also i’m concerned hes shutting me out am I going crazy? I really love this guy but i need advice. im a mess…”

- Kelly (18, Nashville, TN)

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