Jaime Asked Relationship Experts:

“I am very blessed to have found a man whom I consider my best friend and am excited to spend my life with him. Unfortunately we are forced to be 2500 miles apart while he’s away at school. He had previously dated someone when he left for school who ultimately cheated on him. I’ve tried to be patient with the questions but my patience is wearing thin. The questions are starting to make me angry as I would have hoped they would subside by now but have not. We’ve been together only 4 months but I know he is the man for me and I the woman for him. I’m not asking advice about staying or leaving. I would like advice on how to address this situation so we can work on it together and how I can help him and us get through this before it damages our relationship. 

Thanks

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Brian Asked:

“Ive known my girlfriend (so she says she is) for 6 years. She has never met me personally and or committed. We met online and been talking since then nonstop. However, it’s mainly through texting. She constantly blows me off and more. I wonder and always think she fake but she on my Facebook And all her friends talk me telling me I’m lucky. As you can see I’m confused and i do not know what to think, feel, and or believe.”

- Brian (28, Springdale, AR)

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Gaurish Asked:

“I met a lady on imvu where i had my name as raj and which was fake. slowly we became friends we shared yahoo ids. then we shared skype and we used to video chat always on skype. when not on skype we used to chat on yahoo mssnger all the day till we sleep. i m married and also she is married and has one daughter 8 years old. she said she did not love her usband since it was an arranged marriage. slowly i started loving her. we shared each and every detaisl of our lifes. i love her very much but she said sometimes she likes me she misses me. the fact is that she loved one person two years back very madly but he left her so she did not want say she loves me and then feel the pinch. but yes she misses me and used to also get angry if i not answer her or get little late to answer. Now the real thing comes. this was going for last 5 months. 15 days bfr since i love her i did not want to hide with her my real name so i told her my real name. But since then she stoppend talking to me. she reds my mssges on bbm and yahoo m not sure but she still in my list she reads my mails but dosent answer. can u advice please wht to do. she from different country and we are far from each ther we know tht we cannot get married but still were together and the relation was gone way beyond. now she dosent answrr can u please advice. i love her a lot. she says she hate lies. i told her i myself told her the truth instead of she coming to know from somwhere else. but she not answering me.please advice.”

- Gaurish (32, UAE)

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Grateful Asked:

“I’m so confused and I really don’t know where to start from…we met around 20 months ago when he was deployed in the country I’m residing now. He started pursuing me so aggressively…and we both felt in love with each other so badly..His deployment was 6 months only but he assured me that he was coming back…For some reasons…he couldn’t come back..He kept calling and texting me all the times…However, I felt that something wasn’t right at his end…Of course when we met he addressed himself as a divorced man…From his actions…I had this feeling this..he is still married but is denying this for some reason…we continued our LDR..with no definite objective..as every time I used to ask him about us..his answer was that he doesn’t know for now..and that too much was going on at that point of his life between him, his ex and their daughter.

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Megumi Asked:

“My boyfriend and I have been dating for 1 year and 6 months.
We are flying to America for college in about 1 month. My boyfriend = California and Me = Nebraska.
The problem is, I am willing to go out on a long-distance relationship with him and work it out. My boyfriend, on the other hand, does not believe it will work out. He has a very negative thought about it. He says “We can’t constantly keep in touch” or “You never know if one of us will lose our feelings”. This is not only once. I have tried NUMEROUS times to convince him!
Though, I am not giving up without trying!
How should I motivate him? And if he finally agrees on going out on a long-distance relationship, how should I make it work?”

- Megumi (18, Tokyo, Japan)

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She Asked:

“This guy i met trough internet, and now we are having s long distance relationship. But nothing goes right… sometimes he is good to me sometimes he is not…he says he wants to be with me and he only wants me…but we keep fighting around little and stupid stuff…he keeps coming back and apologizing and i keep taking him back… ever time we talk on the phone he says that he is crazy about my voice and that he cant help his self and he masturbates everytime he hears me talking…i dont know what to do, how to handle this situation? sometimes i think he loves me but sometimes i feel like he is just using me?”

- She (21)

Krisna Asked:

“I’ve been in a long distance relationship with a guy while on vacation in Turkey for about 1.5 years. At first, I was totally against it and he wasn’t even my type and I rejected him but as I got to know him, I saw that he was a good person, career oriented, and really seemed to like me. He comes to visit me in the States and I visited him a couple times in Istanbul. The problem is, I am due to move to Turkey to live to be closer to him, as his job is more lucrative and I can easily relocate and work. However, I am having doubts about the relationship. He comes from a traditional family and he is keen to marry and have lots of kids. I’m not even sure if that is what I want right now. We don’t have a a ton of stuff in common and I feel like I”m just settling for him because I think I’m 27 and should be getting married soon. I broke up with him once before but we got back together after we talked about it. Whenever I express any doubts he always says he will do whatever he can to make me happy, and I know he is not lying, but I just have a feeling there may be someone better for me but I am afraid to break up with him and be alone. I don’t know if it’s the distance creating these problems (when I’m with him, things go well) or if I’m not just in love with him. any advice?”

- Krisna (27, US)

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Sofia Asked:

“I met my bf on net and he’s from florida and i live in philipines, we are 2 far from eachother, i really want to see him and he told me that he loves me, we both believe in our relationshp.
But were 2 far and everythngs complicated, he’s older than me he’s 17 and iam 13. I get scared that one day he may nut love me anymore cause he mght find other girls. I’m scared to loose him. Cause ilove him, i can feel it and i want to hold his hands and hug him, i dont knw what to do to my life. What am i going to do?”

- Sofia (13, Phillipines)

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Aly Asked:

“My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years. We see each other pretty much everyday. He told me he plans on move in about 8 months for school. We have not been apart for longer than a week and i feel like an LDR would be way too hard for me but i love him. I think about the move everyday and I cannot help but feel like this move will tear us apart. I offered to go with him but he shut me down and told me that he is not ready to move in together so he made our only option an LDR. I feel like I am being forced into this and I dont know what to do. Not to mention i feel like we are on two separate pages because i am ready to move in together. How can I be okay with an LDR? How can i make this relationship work when i so desperately want to avoid an LDR? Are we just on two different commitment levels that this just wont work?”

- Aly (19, Miami, Florida)

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Kyle Asked:

“Im in a long distance relationship and we are both in the military. Im going to visit her for christmas and new years. We have been together for 7 months and she says she “loves me” but “not in love” with me. I love her to death and everything, and respect her decision. I was wondering if theres anything I can do to to go from not in love, to in love. Thank you for your time and response.”

- Kyle (21, Maui, HI)

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