She Asked:

“This guy i met trough internet, and now we are having s long distance relationship. But nothing goes right… sometimes he is good to me sometimes he is not…he says he wants to be with me and he only wants me…but we keep fighting around little and stupid stuff…he keeps coming back and apologizing and i keep taking him back… ever time we talk on the phone he says that he is crazy about my voice and that he cant help his self and he masturbates everytime he hears me talking…i dont know what to do, how to handle this situation? sometimes i think he loves me but sometimes i feel like he is just using me?”

- She (21)

Thanks to social networking sites such as Hi5, Badoo, and Facebook, the way people are meeting and dating has changed dramatically in the past few years. We all know how hard it is to meet someone new since it only happens if you go to a bar or a club hoping to make the right conversation and not get turned down. Of course you can also meet someone by getting introduced to them by either friends or family, but how often does that really happen?

Social networks have become sort of like an electronic bar or online club (like shaddi.com) in a way, as people all over the world are using these sites to meet and get to know new people daily. Add to that the fact that it is so easy and you will see why these sites have become the place to be.

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Finding a compatible partner to date is never easy. If you are looking for singles in the USA then the dating pool of compatible partners is even smaller. Use information that is available on the Internet to help you get ahead on the dating scene. If you do not have a specific woman that you are interested in, online dating sites are a great way to meet many women. By meeting different women at the same time this will help you find the person that’s the best fit for you. Of course the quality of the person is what is most important. If you want to find someone that is smart, beautiful, and funny it will take some effort online to learn where the right woman for you is. Before you sign up for a site, take the time to do some research. Perform a Google search to see how users rate or review different matchmaking sites. Join several online dating sites at the same time. You would not expect to meet the perfect woman for you by going to the same bar every Saturday, so cast a wider net and increase your chances of meeting someone perfect for you by seeing who’s online. Signing up for at least three sites will help you accomplish this.

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About 8 months ago I began an internet connection with 2 ladies; that I was interested in from a personals website. We began our contact, when I sent a virtual kiss, they responded and an email marathon was born. I wrote a story called “The Internet Connection, Fate or Fantasy Pt 1” back in April and here is the conclusion to that story. Many have tried the internet with various degrees of success, I have been fortunate enough to have met some lovely ladies even if it did not lead to romance. The contact with the 2 ladies on the west coast and the connection we made was both immediate and intriguing.

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One day I began looking at the personal ads on the internet, hoping to find a connection with my special someone ? At any given time there must be hundreds of people looking, perhaps even 1000’s are hoping to make that connection with someone. It all begins with flirting gestures , you can send a kiss, a wink , a hello just to let them know that there is an interested party. Often times all these gestures go unnoticed and are never responded to, because maybe they looked at your profile or picture and instantly dismissed you. While at other times, this person may respond and ask to know more about you, this opens the door for further emails, instant messages, and hopefully a phone conversation. I do believe you can make a connection with someone through the internet, if you are honest, upfront and honorable. People can sense in this in the words you write and in the thoughts you choose to relay to them. So with that our story begins, “The Internet Connection, Fate or Fantasy?”

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