How do you define great sex?
Do you like it hot and sweaty? Slow and easy? Would you rather have a quickie or a lingering session? Or maybe some of everything, depending on your mood?
No “right measure” of sexual quality exists, although I’d argue that an essential element is that both partners freely consent to participate. Beyond that, the only thing that counts is whether you feel good about the experience during and after the encounter. No guilt, no regrets, no worries.
