1. Thou shalt never bail on thy girls to hang out with a guy, unless he is a biological or adopted relative (son, nephew, grandson) and preferably under 18.

2. Thou shalt remember that thy friends’ exes/parents/siblings are OFF-LIMITS.

3. If thou hast an affair with thy friend’s spouse or child, thou shouldst enter the Witness Protection Program or thy country’s equivalent ASAP. … read more

John Asked:

“There is this girl that I met the weekend before Thanksgiving and took a liking too. A friend of hers let me know that she supposedly thought I was cute. I got her phone number that night and have been talking and texting her every day since because she lives an hour away from me. I have taken her on a couple of dates thus far and all has gone swimmingly. From my stand point we have a great deal of chemistry between the two of us, and on a side note she plans on going to the same college I attend this fall. I have but one simple question. Should I ask her to be my girlfriend (I would really like to) now and if so how should I do it.”

- John

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Dan Asked:

“So I’ve met this wonderful girl online last week, and starting on Monday have been talking to her everyday online since then. I’ve even managed to meet her in person, take her out over the weekend on a couple dates, and brought her over to my dorm for a make out session, but here’s the kicker….

We met on campus and now it’s winter break and she went home which is over 2 hours away from me. I’ve been talking to her over the net since being home but she has told me she hasn’t been out yet cuz her friends aren’t back, making me think when her friends are back she might not talk to me anymore. Plus she hasn’t mentioned anything about starting a relationship with me.

I really like her a lot and I wanna be her boyfriend but I’m not sure if I should ask now. I’m afraid she might meet someone back home, so I’ve even thought about driving out to meet her, and would ask her then to be my girlfriend. I’ve read that I should wait for her to ask me? I don’t know what to do and time is slipping away, any advice would be greatly appreciated.”

- Dan

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