Darrin Asked:
“My Partner says she likes her foreplay a little rough, I have very little experience, can you please give me some tips etc…”
- Darrin (44, Melbourne, Victoria, Australia)

Expert advice to get your relationships back on track
Do you sometimes wonder what happened to that randy, can’t-get-enough couple you used to be? You know, before the fatigue of everyday life set in and before the kids arrived. Back when you could have the week from hell and still strap on your dancing’ shoes and, after a great night out, have energy for sex. If you just sighed nostalgically, I get it. I understand how easy it is to let the demands of everyday life take precedence over romance. I know how easy it is to find yourselves, on what used to be date night, in sweats, watching a Netflix, eating delivery pizza, and drifting off before the end of the movie. Been there. Done that.
Every relationship guru on the planet, including me, recommends that you schedule regular date nights and times for sex. You have to make your relationship a priority or one day you’ll wake up to find it gone. That doesn’t mean you can ignore your relationship the rest of the time. In fact, with just a little imagination you can turn everyday events, such as a trip to the grocery store, into acts of emotional foreplay that enhance intimacy–in and out of the bedroom. How? Let’s take a look.
Grocery shopping is one of those chores you can’t get around. Ya gotta eat! The trick is getting it done AND using the opportunity to engage in emotional foreplay. Emotional foreplay is doing those things that make your sweetheart feel high-on-a-pedestal adored, always-number-one special, you-deserve-the-best nurtured, and can’t-live-without-you cherished. So here are some ideas for you:

I know you have all heard of foreplay, but how many have heard of sexual post play? Well, I am here to tell you if you follow my suggestions for post play; you will become a hero in the bedroom. You will be talked about by your wife or girlfriend. That’s right, women talk about us and how we do in the bedroom as well. They just don’t tell you about it. They also talk to me in my job as a marriage, relationship and sexual coach. I hear that you guys just roll over and go to sleep leaving your women too often unsatisfied and unable to sleep and feeling ignored and left out.


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1) Romance Never Goes Out of Style:
Celebrate and nurture your love with romance. Surprise your partner with the classic romantic evening that never goes out of style. Light some candles, put on sensual mood setting music, open a bottle of wine. Order out or cook up your partner’s favorite meal. Turn off the TV, the cell phones, the computers. Just take the time to focus completely on each other. Gaze into each others’ eyes, talk and listen – fall in love again!

When it comes to being intimate, do you think it’s not that important to use foreplay? Or are you the type that’s unsure on how to do it in a way that will put a huge smile on your partner’s face?
Well here’s what you should know: You don’t need to use foreplay every time you engage in a sexual activity. There may be times when you both just want to get straight to having sex. But if a woman wants to be romanced and have her body caressed and cared for, here are a couple things you can do: … read more

When it comes to being intimate, do you think it’s not that important to use foreplay? Or are you the type that’s unsure on how to do it in a way that will put a huge smile on your partner’s face?
Well here’s what you should know: You don’t need to use foreplay every time you engage in a sexual activity. There may be times when you both just want to get straight to having sex.
But if a woman wants to be romanced and have her body caressed and cared for, there are many things you can do.

Dr. Bonnie Eaker Weil
Specialty: Therapist, Relationship, dating, Marriage
Location: U.S
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