Aliyah Asked:
“Well I have been dating a guy since last year and we were meeting only for sex and he did have already a girlfriend and they were supposed to get engaged but they have break-up after.That guy keep on meeting me sometimes and we do keep in touch via messenger and I began to really like him,he cares for me and we talk as frineds and even we met only for sex he has never make me get any problem.But the last time we have meet we have gone to lunch only and my friends were around that day,and he has finally be friends my friends (both girls and boys)also,I did not tell my friends that we were dating each other because I knew that he meets me only for sex,but I became jealous when I find out that he meet my friends even I was not there.I have later tell my friends about us by lieing a bit by telling them that he was my ex.but I wanted to get into relationship with him because I like him very much. He was angry when I told him that I have told my friends that we were together before.He told i should have never told them about us and we did have a big fight. And he has really hurt me because he told me that I was cheap and he never love and never will. But after some week later he has call me and we chat a lot on messenger more than before in fact quiet everyday now. He has not yet talk about that fight between us, he is making as if nothing has happend,But the last time we chat he told that he wanted to meet me, I have ask him why, he told me because that he like me and he has like me since long. if he wanted me only for sex, he could have taken advantage of that he like me and he always want my good. So I have ask him about getting into a serious relationship he told me we will be together at any time the issue about his girlfriend can arise in his family and that they can force him to get engaged. He said that he really does not want to give me hope and like we are, we will always support each other.
I really don’t know what to do as I am confused, I want to get into something serious with him else I will leave him coz I don’t want to get hurt. plz advice me.”
- Aliyah (23, Mauritius)
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