Nadin Asked:
“my boyfriend says he loves me, his actions show it too, he’s very caring and protective of me and he talks about me in his future alot and says that us married with a great family forever is what’s going to make him the happiest and most satisfied man alive .. but he had an X-gf who passed away.. she actually was my best friend, and i introduced them, they only met once and then she left town, they stayed together for only a month and then passed away 
.. tho a short relation, he loved her very much, i was there and i saw everything that happened with them and i helped them out alot.. he loved her very very much and she changed him alot.. now sometimes when he’s depressed, he just closes up on himself and doesnt talk to anyone even me and remembers her,, sometimes i just cant help think that he may still have feelings for her.. but if he does, how come he loves me like he says? i know he loves me, it’s proven in his every little action.. but sometimes i feel like he still has issues with her death and i dont know what to do, i just back away and give him his time at these times, but if he still has issues should i just leave him? we talked and he said that some things are over to him, especially that he found out a couple of things that hurt him about her.. i dont knw what shd i do? am not jealous of her she was my best friend and she’s dead, i just need to do what’s best for him and i need to know if it’s true that he loves me or not.. should we go on or should i just back away if it’s better for him,, i really wish i could do the best thing for him but i just can’t figure it out.. i need help with that .. please…
o and btw.. i never asked him for anything,. not for a relation or a date .. i didn’t even try to have any sort of relation with him, it was all his effort from the start, he was the one who asked me out a couple of times at the begging and he was the one who started with the word i love u, and he says it all the time, every single day, even when i dont reply it back, he tells me he loves me, does he really? he’s an amazing guy, i cant and dont want to lose him, but i would if it’s necessary for him ..”
- Natin (Cario, Egypt)
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