Javier Asked:

“I’ve been courting this (younger) girl for almost 4 years. She temporarily moved to Kores for a job.We kept contact and everything was o.k up untill just recently she stopped answering my e-mails and calls,when she did answer all she had to tell me was..”I can’t be with someone who doesn’t have a drivers license, a citizenship and has a minimum wage job….She was o.k with everything up until she got that job where she is doing well and met new friends that brag about their boyfriends..my question is “Is she being influenced by her new friends or is it really just me?..and if it is me why did it take her 4 years to figure it out??”

- Javier (34)

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Courtship. Sounds like an ancient word, right? Oh and do men even court women anymore? If they do, courting these days might go something like this: guy buys girl drink, girl accepts drink, guy flirts, girl flirts back, girl goes back to his place, girl gets in guys bed.

Today, courtship barely exists and dating is simply meeting someone and sharing his or her bed over a period of several months. Then like a box of cereal, that person gets tired of having the same old thing everyday and moves on to something different.

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