John Asked:

“I have been in a relationship since 2 years. Now my girlfriend said that she wants me to hang out with friends (without her) only twice a month. not more. because we have to hang out only together. Furthermore, the friend that I can see when I am alone can be only male, and not female. Is it normal or should I break up?”

- John (31, Chicago)

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Heather Asked:

“I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years. The first few months we dated he was cheating on me but I forgave him and since then hes been great but I’ve gone crazy. I’m extremely controlling and am afraid I’ve become obsessed with him. I have to check his phone, email, and Facebook daily. I constantly have to be around him and even though we live together just an hour apart gives me terrible anxiety and i miss him like crazy. He cant go out and do things without me because I always have to be with him and when i get the chance to have fun on my own I dont because all i think about is him. I even quit my job because all i could focus on was him. Its caused us to fight constantly and he said hes leaving me unless I change. Please help me..”

- Heather (20)

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C.J Asked:

“Last year my best friend moved to Nashville from Michigan. She ended up meeting a man a few months ago and recently announced she’s engaged. We were very happy and excited for her up until this week.

Allow me to backtrack slightly. I’m in my 40′s as is my friend. Though she is a lady, I’m a guy. We’ve been best friends for years to the point where she’s closer than my own sister. She was best person at my wedding and her kids (boy and girl both teens) were ushers. She and my wife are extremely close friends. We’ve watched her kids grow up (their dad is not in the picture), have babysat the kids on a multitude of occasions when my friend had to go out of town on business.

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Scott Asked:

“My wife told me she wants out. That she doesn’t love me anymore. We have been married for 18 yrs and I don’t want to lose her. We have been getting more distant and have not made love in over 6 months. I also have control issues which I’m getting help for as well. For a long time I haven’t felt loved wanted or needed. but I love her more then anything and want her not to shut me out. She also said shes done and doesn’t want to work on our marriage at all. I don’t know where to start on how to get her to change her mind if I can at all.”

- Scott (51, Hernando, FL)

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Hamed Asked:

“How can i get back with my ex girlfriend?

i have been with my ex for 8 years now we practically grew up together we had our bad and good times but in late 08 her family decided to back to the U.K she stayed and the first visit to U.K was fine she went for like a week but in dec of 08 things started to change we had alot of arguments and issues regarding trust like i love her and do trust her but i get very worried when i called and she would not answer me properly or something anyways after that she was supposed to come back before new years but the day she was going to fly she decided not to come and break up with me because she needed time to think we sorted it out eventually and end of january she did come back and the plan was she would come stay for like 3 months and then go back to the U.K and i would follow in the summer she stayed we sorted everything and got engaged it was an amazing week and after the engagement she left after the engagement by one day the first two weeks that she was there all was good she was happy but after that it started with her being moody and whenever i called while she was out with friends she would get angry that i asked questions like where you going, what time would u be home and stuff like that etc. i know i did pressure her and that was wrong but suddenly she decided we can’t work out and that she was sorry but its better like this and that she wants different life so forth i tried to email she emailed once but now nothing and i hear that she is having an awesome time going to london cambridge , and she didnt know what she was thinking when she got engaged i am sooo hurt its been 2weeks now and i dont know what to do my i cant contact her because she has a different number now my only way is email but i dont want to email her all the time please tell me what u think and if you want me to explain more i will
Thank you”

- Hamed (Bahrain)

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