Daisha Asked:
“Hello my name is Daisha and Ive been in a relationship with a man for 5yrs and we have a 2yr old daughter he has 2 other kids from a privious relationship that he loves to death and I also love. Now the thing is the kids live 3 hours away from us but we go see them every weekend the kids lived with us for 10 months their mother let them come 2 days after my baby was born and she never once came to visit we enrolled them in school and things were going good but 10 months later my fiance recived court papers she wanted the kids back long story short she got the kids back they went from having their own bedrooms to living in a 1 bedroom with their mother that crushed my fiance. He has been paying child support the whole 5yrs i forgot that part even the 10 months they lived with us. Things seem to be getting better he accteped that the kids went back to their mother and we’ve been going down every weekend now all of a sudden she’s trying to push him out of their lives telling the kids that he doesent love them he only loves my baby and he has a new family and does not need them because he has me and my baby theres alot more that was said but its just to much my fiance is getting to the point where he doesent know what to do any more and he’s been back and forth to court and feels like the court system has failed him and his kids and now he feel like the only way to get across to his babymama is through violence and going to jail or just turing his back on them and i dont want either of thoes There was a time when i was able give him word of encouragement but im running out of thing to say to him he cries evey day and i dont know what to do and it hurts me and my baby to see him hurt. Sincerly (his words) GOOD FATHER BROKEN”
- Daisha (25, NY)
