Expert advice to get your relationships back on track
Anyone who has experienced infidelity knows the emotional trauma it brings to a marriage or relationship all too well. The pain of infidelity cuts to the very core of your heart and soul. Partners who have been cheated on often pose the question: “How could you do this to me”? This begs the question: Can a marriage or relationship survive infidelity given its all-consuming hurt and pain?
All four of them where sitting in the hot tub at John’s house, consoling their frustrations at Kyle with alcohol and anger. John noticed Kyle calling for the 5th time that day and finally picked up the phone. “Who is over there!?, who is with you!?” John sighs a bit “No one, Kyle…” Marie grabs the phone from John. “You fucking asshole!! Fucking all of us all at the same time! Without a fucking condom!” she breathes violently waiting for a response but Kyle has already hung up. Terry laughs approvingly since she is one of the many girls Kyle has lied to. He has led each girl on with promises of love and a serious relationship. Finally Kyle’s fragile house built of lies collapsed around him and even his guy friends feel alienated .
If you have experienced this trauma, you know how it feels. Like someone just kicked you really hard in the stomach. With pointy steel toe cowboy boots on…in the dark…because you never saw it coming. What trauma am I speaking of? When the person you divorced or just broke up with starts dating someone else.
You’ve always had it in you. You’ve had the vision and the dream, and you’ve even had the tingly feelings and shaky knees that love can bring about. You’ve had expectations of this thing called ‘love’, but over time, reality doesn’t seem to cooperate.
What brings about this distance between us, this emptiness that wasn’t a part of my plan? The myriad of questions begin to fill your head. What happened? What did I do? Am I not attractive to you anymore? Don’t you love me?
Kypris Aster Drake, M.S., M.A.
Specialty: Sex, Book Author
Location: CA, U.S
Posts by Kypris Aster Drake, M.S., M.A.
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