What the hell is going on? You ask yourself as your boyfriend other gets wishy washy around your plans for Christmas. “You told me that you were able to go with me to my parents house?” he responds lamely about his dog needing to get spayed that day. You hang up the phone pissed and confused, wanting to go over to his work and embarrass his spineless ass in front of his coworkers, Jerk…

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Walter Asked:

“Me and my girlfriend have a child together, we were separate for 2 years due to school, no contact nothing when she came back December 2007 we met and our daughter was conceived. Well I was involved with another woman back in school whom I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. I gave up the relationship with her, to focus on our relationship with the baby mama. I have tried to talk to the mama to reconnect with me for our daughter’s sake but she kept on pushing me back I was even depressed. When our daughter was 2 months old she cheated on me and it was not her first time but 4th time. I am tired of her I don’t feel her any more must I be with her for the sake of our daughter?”

- Walter

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Are you questioning the future of your relationship?  Undecided about staying together or calling it quits?

Take a few minutes for this quiz; use the answers for some objective introspective into the situation.

1)     How long have you been dating this person?

a.       0-6 months

b.       6-12 months

c.       1-3 years

d.       over 3 years

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So your relationship has ended, now what? Are you going to sit for many months and dwell on what the other person has done? Are you going to blame the entire failure on them? Are your friends and family going to be so sick of hearing the entire story over and over again? Or are you going to learn and heal from what has incurred and move forward to a more rewarding future? When something comes to an end it is so easy for a person to automatically push all the blame onto the other person, but the truth is it does take two people to end the relationship, to kill the entire thing beyond repair. When you really think about what has transpired you can actually see that specific steps had lead you to where you are now.

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Why do people cheat? Is there such a thing as a “cheating season” or “summer fling”? Why do people still cheat with knowing the fact that cheating is bad? There are always reasons behind the things that we do in life. Some times we really have to look at both sides of the perspectives. Read about what our Amateur Relationship Expert Nick Jacketti has to say about the cheaters in his blog.

It must be cheating season again because that’s all I seem to be hearing about lately. Sure it goes on all the time but I guess the whole “summer fling” fever has spread throughout the relationship world. Over the past month, I’ve been hearing about celebrities and random acquaintances’ unfaithful spouses/partners. I consistently hear the self blame theory but honestly, does unfaithfulness really stem from a void in a relationship or a shortcoming from the faithful mate? In short, no.

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I have come across an interesting article today. I thought it’s worth to share. This is for all the people out there that are still in a relationship that doesn’t work. It’s time to do something about it!

If you feel like your marriage is dead, then bury it. I didn’t say end it. I said bury it. Some relationships are so bad that all you can do is to start over. They are bad because for years you have slowly killed each other.

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