Expert advice to get your relationships back on track
Joe Asked:“My wife has had a brief bisexual encounter when she was an adolescent. She kissed another female and the other female felt her breasts. She recently mentioned to me that she is curious as to what it would be like to be with a woman. How can I help her explore her fantasy without introducing another person in our relationship. As a man how can I help her experience her fantasy? I would like womens point of view.”
- Joe (40, Houston, TX)
As a lesbian nearing 30 years of being out, I finally felt compelled to write an article about bi-sexual women and to put a different spin on the ongoing debates about them. There are those who embrace them and those who dismiss them as soon as the word bisexual is uttered. I find there are as many different types of bisexuals as there are lesbians. Each woman coming with their own unique thoughts and ideas about what being a bisexual is.
Ladies, welcome to W.O.W (World of Women). I am a lesbian and am offering some solid advice to help you fulfill your fantasy about being with another woman. Maybe the urge to be with another woman has been there for a long time or maybe you discovered it after watching some steamy sex scenes on the Showtime hit, The L Word or some other program that has mainstream women making out in the media. Please note that there are differences in approaching a woman based on whether she is gay, bi-sexual, or bi-curious (see definitions below). There are also differences in the over all experience of being with women based on their sexual orientation, as well as “type’ in terms of gender style (i.e. tomboy, femme, ultra-femme, boi, butch, etc). I realize this gender style doesn’t exist much in the “straight” world (maybe feminine and tomboy) but it does if you enter the “lesbian” world. Regardless, sex with a woman can be super hot and like nothing you have ever imagined. Trust me; it is not like you’ve seen depicted in some “straight” girl-on-girl porn flick that you may have watched with your boyfriend. If you have been with another bi-sexual woman or even another bi-curious female, you may have experienced frustration if neither of you has had previous or extensive girl-on-girl experience.
Kypris Aster Drake, M.S., M.A.
Specialty: Sex, Book Author
Location: CA, U.S
Posts by Kypris Aster Drake, M.S., M.A.
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