Break ups are hard but after time passes, you can find out that they are rewarding. I often find myself disgusted with things I enjoyed with my ex, like certain movies, televisions shows andetc. The reason why, is that I was becoming what he wanted me to be and still didn’t get the ring. So now I am in an exclusive relationship with MYSELF! What I mean by this is I take ever step that I would do in a relationship but for myself only.

Step 1: Look the part- When I get up in the morning I want to make sure I look good. As I step outside my goal is to make heads turn. I love to see men get wide eye and do the Charlie Chaplin with their eye brows as they see me walk by. I don’t respond to the attention physically because I know it takes more to get my time. Ever notice people who are in good relationships are quick to tell others that try to pursue them, that is what not responding to others attention being single is doing for me. Being confident gets you attention that you deserve!

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Ever since we were young and watching our favorite Disney movies (this was way back in the pre-Pixar days), we learned that in the end, no matter what, love would conquer all.  Love conquers evil spells, giant octopus witches, and even wicked mother-in-laws with appalling fashion taste.  The bottom line is always the same: once we find our true loves, we will live happily ever after, and prosper while we spend the rest of our days in a fabulous castle and never gain weight and never get older (castle, in modern terms, can loosely be translated into a 3 bedroom condo overlooking a body of water).

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Ok, so you’ve been single for a while, but do you know what?  Those in relationships wish they were in your shoes (some of them anyway).  Your time will come when you meet the right girl or guy, so until then, enjoy yourself!!!

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I am 35 and never been married. Granted I look and act like I am in my 20’s! (ego stroke, ahh feels good..) I once heard that if a man makes it to the age of 30 without being married he is either really intelligent or very unattractive. I like to lean towards the first one! but being single is great! well I’m kinda single. I think after the age of 30 you feel single even if you are dating. Girlfriend/boyfriend? Well, they are like buses and there is always another coming. The truth is I am dating someone in Japan. I don’t think the long distance is a good idea but she makes it work and I am afraid of her.

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Do you have anxiety about not being in a relationship? Do you freak out when you stop to think about the fact that you aren’t with someone? Are you worried about your biological clock? Do you fear that all the ‘good ones’ are already taken? If you’ve been in many relationships that haven’t worked out or if you wonder if you’ll ever find the storybook ending, don’t despair. I have some surprising news for you.

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When it comes to relationship status, the grass is always greener. Couples who have been together for years often fantasize about being on their own, while singles frequently idealize the home and hearth that coupledom purportedly brings. It is my belief that too many singles spend their time and energy longing for The One and miss out on the true pleasures of being single.

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