When I tell someone my “power words” I always get that really, really long pause…the one that silently communicates, “Are you kidding me?”  I’m not kidding them and I’m not kidding you now.  There are words that have an effect on women, but they aren’t part of a secret language created by some love guru thousands of years ago.  When I first tell them to you you’ll recognize them, know them well, but still not understand why they are so powerful.  They are not ‘selling words’, they’re not subliminal, and they are not hypnotizing either.  They are simple words, because words are just a way to communicate ideas, but what you’re communicating isn’t the definition you’ll find in the dictionary.  These words are effective because an attitude comes with them, an attitude that will trigger attraction in women.  But when a guy hears this he’s thinking power means domination but that isn’t what these words do at all.  These words don’t shut women down…they open them up.  Open them to the idea that you might be someone worth talking to, someone worth hanging out with, and someone attractive.  And they can reawaken these feelings in someone that’s lost them.  Let’s start with the words and when you recover from your shock we’ll talk a little bit about why they are so powerful.

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Hopefully you read part 1 on GREAT TIPS FOR APPROACHING WOMEN. If you did, then please read on for more great information. If you haven’t, please read the article which you can find in my profile area.

When we left off, you saw the best way to approach a woman, and break the ice for a conversation. I feel the hardest part of trying to approach and talk to women is the initial approach. Being able to go up to her, make her feel comfortable right away, while not triggering her defense mechanisms that I have talked about before, is the hardest part. When I say the hardest part, I mean the scariest and most nerve racking. It’s like anything in life. Step one is always the hardest step to take.

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As I said in a recent article “Getting Past Women’s Defensive Walls - The First Steps To Attracting More Women” Women put up walls as a time management tool. If they spent time on every dude that hit on them, they wouldn’t be able to leave their own homes. Because of this, it is important to have a few tricks up your sleeve that can open her up, and let you into her world. This is not always easy, and quite frankly, you will face some rejection, but it you implement these techniques, you will be light years ahead of most men.

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When it comes to approaching and attracting women, most men are clueless.  They don’t know what to say, or how to say it.  They don’t understand how women think about themselves, or other men.

Before you can even begin to have the right set of tools to drive the ladies crazy, you need to have the right tools within yourself. I know you might be thinking this is sappy or corny, but it is more important than you know. In order for you to attract more women, and be successful with them, you need to have a healthy and confident self. Without knowing, growing, and learning about yourself, you will never be successful with women.

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The knowledge and skill-set needed to attract and date more women is far different than the knowledge and skill-set needed to have and nurture a serious, monogamous relationship.  When it comes to attraction, flirtation, and dating, women respond to much different techniques than what many men think.  There are a couple major elements that men need to know about when it comes to attracting women.  These elements seem small, but they make a world of difference and will have you heading in the right direction to meeting and dating more women.

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Do you ever flirt with people you find attractive? What if someone flirts with you? Does it make you embarrassed, happy, or aroused?

Flirting is a great way to open the door to a potential relationship or reignite the passion in an existing one but flirting is not to be taken seriously. Flirtation means to act amorously without having serious intentions. Flirtation is light, fun, and playful. The idea of flirtation is that it is a trifle. You certainly may know how to flirt. You may even be quite good at it; however, it can be easy to take flirtations very seriously and put too much emphasis on it. And that can stop flirting from being good for you.

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Building a relationship with you is one of the most important relationships a person can achieve. I ask how can you expect someone to not only love you but also like you if you are unable to do this to yourself? Why would someone want to spend time with you when you don’t even like to spend time by yourself! With people always out there looking for another to make them happy I often wonder why you need another to make you happy. With in life people should not need someone to do something such as make them happy when they should be actually looking for a person to share the already happiness that they have achieve in their lives.

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If you’re attracted to the unavailable type, I bet you can clearly identify that person in your life. But the choice to partner with emotionally shut down people is incredibly significant. Every time you choose someone who can’t give you what you need, you’re being offered a clear invitation to look closer at the pain you’re causing yourself.

Since the beginning of time, emotionally unavailable people have been known for making dates and then breaking them, being married or in a long term relationship, being an alcoholic or a compulsive gambler, being angry or abusive, not wanting to be in a relationship with you, being passive-aggressive or frequently late, still being connected to their “ex,” not initiating, putting no energy out, keeping you guessing, flirting with other people, not being attracted to you, being controlling, judgmental, hesitant in some way, or being inconsistent.

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So you two have made it past the dating, initial courtship, first & further physical intimacy, agreed upon exclusivity and monogamy, and now you’re ready to settle into the care, feeding, and nurturing of your nascent relationship. Cool. Happiness and fulfillment await you. That is, the odds are good if you’ve both done your homework, laid some groundwork, and made some preparations. Good relationships are not a result of carefully drawn plans and blueprints, but they don’t just “happen”either.

Some things you would think go without saying, but they don’t. It’s easy for us objective observers to see the red flags in others’ relationships, and we scratch our heads and wonder why the principles involved can’t see it. In the initial stages of a relationship we feel great, the sky’s the limit, and we don’t want to entertain the notion of pragmatism or practicality because anything like that might diminish the euphoria. And there’s nothing wrong or unnatural about feeling that way. Hell, the human race could never have gained a toehold on this planet otherwise. But those primal human responses that populated the earth seldom resulted in healthy, mutually satisfying relationships (emphasis on the mutual part). Relationships are like Harley-Davidson motorcycles: neat, wonderful, fun things, but maintenance-intensive. If you’re not prepared and joyfully willing to spend the time & effort and make the physical and emotional investment necessary for a healthy relationship, then you, and especially your potential partner, are better off not taking the plunge.

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