Unknown Asked:

“i have a 9 month old son with my boyfriend that i currently live with. i’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. he never says i’m pretty like he used to. he’s always sneeking into myspace. he say i’m a whore, cunt, bitch fat, ugly. he’s really jealous. he treats me really bad. he hits me at times, he grabs objects and throws them at me… he often says he wants to kill me.. but this is the thing. i have no family nor friends to turn to or live with.. so i’m stuck with him.. i go to school full time but don’t work.. i want to leave but dont know the first move… how do i get out of my situation?”

- Unknown (20)

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Sad Asked:

“I met this guy 4 years ago and it was love at first sight, we were really close friends who talk about each and everything with one another, However after a year and a half due to work we lost touch with one another. I found someone who was really insecure and did not want me talking to any other guy besides him, so whenever my 1st friend called me my boyfriend would get really upset and angry so I decided to cut all communication period. About a 1yr and a 1/2 after we got back in contact and to my surprise my friend informed me he had a baby. I was in total shock and disbelieve, and since then we kept in touch. We even took our past friendship to a whole new level. But the thing is he is telling me we can’t have a full pledge relationship with me because of his girlfriend and the only reason they are still together it’s because of his daughter. But we sneak out and spend the night together and talk on the phone most of the day. He pledges his love to me and i happen to do the same. The situation is soooo messed up, however my boyfriend started abusing me so i called it quits with him. My friend is still with his baby mama and me, but i can’t understand why???”

- Sad(Trinidad)

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It’s a common theme we find in many relationships. Good women. You know the type who cook & clean, remain faithful to their boyfriend at all costs, supports the man financially, gives him control of her car, and deals with unacceptable behavior on a daily basis. All the while, her boyfriend is constantly cheating on her, not contributing to the household, doesn’t even have a job (aside from some illegal activity) is putting the woman down verbally, and may even abuse her PHYSICALLY on occasion. Now, some would call this a STUPID girl, who stays in a situation like this. I’d say she’s just making a stupid DECISION.

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