Based on general observations, conducting extensive research, and my own experiences, the following items are five critical things women want from their partner. It really isn’t rocket science either. Women may be complex but if you pay attention, you can get it right.
No. 1- Women want respect- This is rule number four in my book, The Straight Man’s Pocket Guide To Picking Up a Hottie-Written by a Woman Who Loves Women. Women want respect. Dictionary.com defines this as “to hold in esteem or honor”. Treating your woman with respect can come in different forms depending on what it means to honor her from her point of view. Aretha Franklin sang about it, so yes, “find out what it means to her” and give it to her.
No. 2- Women want to feel special. This is also a rule in my book; make her feel special everyday. It really doesn’t take much either nor does it have to cost any money. Simple things will work; like telling her she looks pretty today or compliment her new shoes, or newly painted fingernails, or tell her that she smells good. A compliment goes a long way. You can text her in the middle of your crazy day and tell her you are thinking about her. Write her a little note, put it in your pocket, and present it to her with a kiss when you see her later. Pick a flower from your yard or the park and present it to her with a big greeting, “hello beautiful!!”. No matter if you are newly dating, engaged, or have been married for ten or twenty years, make her feel special.
No. 3- Women want to feel safe and protected. Women feel vulnerable as it is being the physically weaker species. So when you are out with her, hold her hand, walk her on the inside of the sidewalk away from the curb, give her your coat if she’s cold, hold her when she needs it. If she’s scared of a spider or some other critic, tell her you’ll take care of it for her (and I don’t mean killing it. Catch it and free it by putting it back outside). If she is having some personal problems with work, school, or family, say reassuring words like, “don’t worry sweetie (or whatever pet name you use), I am here for you and everything will be ok”.
No. 4- Women want to be romanced. Wham bam thank you ma’am is not going to cut it. If your pocket is lean in these economic times, take her to a romantic spot for a walk or a picnic. Make her a candle lit dinner or if you can afford it, take her to a restaurant with a spectacular view or romantic ambiance. If you are newly dating, don’t rush things. Pay attention and feel the pace of how she wants things to go. Don’t come on like you are just trying to get in her pants.
No. 5- Women want a gentleman. Regardless of the women’s movement back in the day when they burned their bras, started voting, and reveled in the victory of Billy Jean King vs. Bobby Riggs, women want you to open the door for them, light their cigarette (if you can find a lady who smokes), carry their packages, pick up whatever they manage to drop on the floor in front of you, and offer to do many more things. Just offer, if they say no, it’s on them. It doesn’t matter if you are educated, rich or poor, good looking or not, show them some gentlemanly behaviors. Don’t yell at them, swear, spit, or make any bodily function noises in their presence. If they don’t always act like a lady, I recommend you continue in a gentlemanly fashion. It’s good practice for you.
Final thoughts. Guys, bottom line is pay attention, behave appropriately, and give a good faith effort to give your woman what she wants. These five tips will get you started on the right track and keep your relationship in a state of happiness, bliss, and harmony.
Cheers,
Robbie Lee, The Straight Man’s Pocket Guide To Picking Up a Hottie-Written by a Woman Who Loves Women
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