I recently did an interview with Sunny Wang and Kim Hess (The Divorce Guru) from Advice.Lovedetour.com, as part of their Energytalkradio.com show where Kim pointed out how much she loved one of my favorite rules from my book, The Straight Man’s Pocket Guide To Picking Up a Hottie-Written by a Woman Who Loves Women; Never be common, boring, or ordinary. Summer is just a few weeks away, so I thought I would diverge from my normal writings and share something more personal to the readers to drive this rule home!!  It doesn’t matter if your gay, straight, or bi, if you want to meet someone, you should follow this rule!!

It was an amazingly beautiful Sunday afternoon in Calabasas, California and I was at my usual fun spot, The Sagebrush Cantina.  If you haven’t heard about this place check out their website and if you ever make it to S. California, it is a must stop, especially on a Sunday afternoon!  I was with my usual group of friends, who ran into some other group of friends (a common occurrence here), which consisted of a mix of guys and girls, straight, gay and bi.  The Cantina is great for variety.  About six of us where standing in a spot that allowed for ample viewing of who was there, usually consisting of a great mix of hot girls and guys.  One of the girls noticed a super hot girl sitting at a near by table.  The hottie was only sitting with one other girl and although they seemed to be having continual conversation, they were both looking around doing a bit of people watching.  One of my bi-sexual girl friends (Catherine), throws down a bet to the four guys who were with us and said, “I’ll bet you twenty-bucks that I can get that girl to kiss me”.  With absolutely no hesitation, all of them were cheering and fussing about, “yea, do it, I’m in, go for it, etc”.    Catherine cruises by the table, pauses, walks back around, and stands behind the hot girl for a bit to listen to what the hottie and her friend were talking about.  I move in close enough too just to see what she could possibly do to get this hot girl to kiss her.  Catherine wasn’t usually so forward so it really peaked my curiosity!!!  After about ten minutes, Catherine walks over to the hottie, leans over and says, “Excuse me.  I just bet my buddies twenty-bucks that I could get you to kiss me, so if you do, I’ll split it with you.”  Ten bucks would get you a drink at the Cantina, Catherine is an attractive girl, so the hottie must have thought to herself, “Why not!!” And so they kiss. It was a brief “peck” on the lips, they laugh a bit and Catherine thanks her then walks back to pick up her twenty bucks.  She walks back over to the hottie, gives her ten bucks, chats for a bit, and after seven or eight minutes, Catherine returns to the group.  They all fuss a bit and high five etc., just as anyone would perhaps.

I wasn’t satisfied with that.  Nor would a two second peck interest me very much nor would splitting ten buck!!  I realized this girl is a least willing to kiss a girl and if she did it once, its likely she would do it again.  So, why not with me!!! I would of course want to be more creative then telling the truth about twenty bucks!!  I start to move in, all the while thinking of what could I possibly say to this hottie to get a kiss that is better than a two second peck.  As I stood near her, nothing came to mind, so I just started talking to her.  I said, “So what do you think about all of the fussing that bunch of girls and guys are making over you?”  She replied, “It’s my first time here and I just broke up with my boyfriend last month, so the attention is nice”.  “Nice honest, sincere answer”, I thought.  Before I knew it I knelt down in front of the hottie, got close up and personal and said, “I bet my friends a hundred dollars that I could get a better kiss than you gave that girl and if you do it, I’ll split it with you.”  The hottie leans into me and plants a big, long, open kiss right on my mouth!!!! I thanked her, stood back up and while looking down at her, still sitting there looking up at me, I confessed, “There is no hundred dollars, I lied.”  I wasn’t sure what she was going to say and to my surprise, she smiled and said, “Would you like to sit down?”  So I did.  The hottie laughed and said, “That was really good!!”  I glanced over at my group of friends for a moment, who gazed in wonderment, waved at them, and continued to have quite an interesting conversation with one of the hottest girls there.  The hottie gave me her work number and although I never called her, never saw her again, she certainly made for another fantastic time at The Sagebrush Cantina, and reinforced my rule and philosophy to “Never be common, boring, or ordinary!!”

Cheers,
Robbie Lee, author of The Straight Man’s Pocket Guide To Picking Up a Hottie-Written by a Woman Who Loves Women

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