While some cannot comprehend the fact that there are those out there who actually would prefer to stay unattached for their life time, I believe it is your right to choose how one lives their life and once you have chosen it is not the responsibility of others to try and change their minds.
Being single can be a great way for some to live, they don’t have the pressure of compromising the things they hold dear to them, nor the guilt of doing something that might hurt the others feelings. While some might view this as selfish, the truth of the matter is that one should always put themselves first in choosing what is right for them in life.
Being single does not necessarily mean being alone, one can actually have a great relationship with another without the proverbial strings that people put on a relationship. The facts are that a person can actually feel they can give more if they are not obligated to do so. The pressure of having is removed and they are free to choose how and what percent of themselves they either are willing to give or the time they actually have to give.
For some this is a result of being raised in a specific type of environment, for others they might have a career they have chosen that does not allow the time for much of anything else, or for some they just feel they haven’t found anyone who they want to commit to.
What ever you choose in life do it so you are happy, don’t date, marry or whatever to appease someone else. Life is too short for some and the quest in life should be to be happy and not cause any harm to others or ones self.
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Brandon,
Thank you for the comment! I like the quote at the end. I think everyone has thought that they will never find the one in life. That is why people tend to settle for less and we all know that that is one of the biggest reasons that people get divorced, cheated on, or being in a unhappy relationship. People should realize that there’s always someone for you and will love you for who you are. You will just have to wait a little longer for that person to show up at your door one day.
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