In this ever-changing world I often wonder why most people cannot understand that within each relationship they have, its ever changing. One must be willing to change without putting restrictions on the other party. In explaining this theory I like to call it “unconditional-ism” yes people I know this is not really a word.

When practicing or understanding the meaning of “unconditional-ism” the basic fact are most people when beginning a relationship starts out liking everything about the other person, then it moves on into the “well I can change that which I don’t like once we are married” phase, only people don’t realize you should never try to change another person. Acceptance of another person for who they are, who they will become, is unconditional love. When most people put “string” or “conditions” on others those strings will eventually strangle the relationship.

Being unconditional does not mean you must change, it means in a whole that if you meet someone and they are someone you seem to share a lot with, they have similar goals then go with it. Don’t expect them or yourself to be the same next year. Expect that if you let this other person grow, as you grow, share and except each day as a gift with them then you will have an unconditional relationship.

While most people expect once married that it’s forever, remember nothing is forever, it can’t be, it must change and you can choose to change and grow with it or stay stagnant and strangle the life out of it.

A point to remember when you find something good, keep it unconditional, keep it string free, keep it!

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