Building a relationship with you is one of the most important relationships a person can achieve. I ask how can you expect someone to not only love you but also like you if you are unable to do this to yourself? Why would someone want to spend time with you when you don’t even like to spend time by yourself! With people always out there looking for another to make them happy I often wonder why you need another to make you happy. With in life people should not need someone to do something such as make them happy when they should be actually looking for a person to share the already happiness that they have achieve in their lives.

When you look for something to make you happy and not look within your own being chances are that relationship will fail. Again I say why would someone want to be with you if you don’t like yourself? Now in all of my teachings I have found that once a person is aware of the fact that they can sit and laugh at a movie, by themselves, go away even if its for a night by themselves or even sit on a Friday night alone and have fun then and only then will others want to spend long periods of time alone with you. In liking who you are and excepting yourself for who you are and putting no “false” information out in the dating world you will in turn meet people who are the same. I am sure many already understand that like attracts like? I am sure that many think that they have met someone who as they will say, “is total opposite from me” but in the long run they find out that this person has many similar characteristics as they do.

In the entire meaning of all of this there is a real lesson and that is stop looking outside yourself for someone to make you happy, start liking yourself and making you happy and the attraction will happen. You will content with yourself and your life and this will attract someone who is also content, they are not looking to “find” someone to make them whole, they will understand that as a person they are already whole and that you are a whole well rounded individual too. They will be looking to “share” happy and sad times, to feel completed, to feel balanced and to feel confident enough to be themselves.

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