Whether we are gay, straight, bi, etc… as women we have a lot of common bonds. It is always most interesting on just how many levels we connect, when we just let down our guard and enjoy each other’s company without all the fog. Last year I traveled to CA, to work with a friend and leave it to me to discover yet another adventure…but truly, if you only look at your life as filled with opportunities, you will find an adventure in simple everyday moments.
My good friend DJ was instrumental in teaching on how to run a business from the ground up, so when she sent out the call for help, I got to California just as soon as I could secure a plane ticket. Unbeknownst to me, I was not the only friend who responded and that is where our next adventure begins, entitled “Shall We Dance?”
After a long week of work, the three of us went out for dinner and drinks, the conversation flowing easily from business to personal. So much had been happening, that this visit was more like a reunion of old friends rather then a call to action. In this atmosphere we were able to let our guard down and just truly enjoy being the company of other strong, like minded women. Our 1 hour dinner turned into 4 and we decided to finish up the evening at DJ’s, who lived close by.
Upon arriving, we opened a bottle of champagne and it wasn’t long, before the stereo was turned on and the ladies insisted on dancing. My 2 friends are straight, so they saw my being a newly single lesbian as an opportunity to refresh not only my dating techniques but my dancing as well. As the champagne began clouding our heads, Patricia put on a slow number so they could observe my dancing skill. I gracefully deflected the offer to dance to DJ, “You two show me, how it’s done!” as I sat back and quietly sipped my champagne. In that moment I could have been aggressive, but it was so much sweeter and interesting to see how this was going to unfold?
They went into everything from positioning of the hand, proper distance, stance, etc… they promised that these secrets would make any woman swoon in my arms. It wasn’t long before my plan to sit back and watch failed, as Patricia insisted I get up and dance, while they critiqued my performance. Each one instructing me to pull them in closer with my hand strategically placed on their lower back. They explained that the position of the hand was very important, just the below the waistline center, because is this manner you could easily control not only the movements but the closeness of your partner. As they shared their secrets, my mind betrayed me and I began to let my guard down, soaking up the knowledge like a sponge. 2 bottles of champagne later and sometime, while working on the third, the girls finally achieved their objective. So in the wee hours of morning and seemingly only 3 hours away from having to be at work, we decided it was time to turn in.
A few days later on an excursion to San Francisco, I was anxious to try out this newly learned technique. I met a beautiful lady and found myself dancing away most of the night with her. A slow number came on and in my mind I recalled the girl’s advice, pulled her in close, positioned my hand just so and enjoyed a wonderful adventure frozen in time.
When I returned to the office on Monday, I was pleased to be able to report back that their technique was a success and what a great weekend, I had with my newly acquired skill!
“See Gina, We told you, it would work! No woman can resist the move! “They both smiled and giggled like teenagers, I had made their day!
So to very good friends, the power of camaraderie, and let’s not forget the secret to making a woman swoon while dancing…”Hello Ms. Heartbreak, I’ve been expecting you!”
Until next week, have faith the next adventure is right around the corner!
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