“I meet this woman at work a couple of months ago, we started talking casually and discovered that we have a lot in common, we decided to start a friendly relationship to start with, we kept on talking everyday and getting closer at the same time, for me well with time she grew on me and i am starting to really fall for her. Lately i have discovered that i am growing on her also. Touching is there, we have decided to go on a date but because of schedule there is no specific date setup yet. We do go out at lunch and talk, it used to be once a week lately it has become everyday. She does want to take things very slow. My question is how can i keep on growing on her, is there anything different that i should be doing?”

- Tim (38, Montreal, Quebec, Canada)

“Hello, I love this guy for years we have kissed before but we never go out …he has never told me he loved me now he has a girlfriend but every time I talk to him he gives me eye contact and smiles at me I love him so much plus he is my cousin I know its very random but I can’t help it I’ve tried to forget him I’ve had another boyfriend after him to try to forget him but he is allways in my mind help please.”

- Mariana (12)

“I think I’m loosing interest in my boyfriend. We’ve been dating for almost a year now, and lately I feel like I’m not as “in love” with him as I used to be. Like I used to get excited when he would call or text me, and when he didn’t I would spend every second wondering why he wasn’t. Now I really couldn’t care less about either. I don’t want to feel this way, I love him, or at least I think I do, i mean I want to. What do you think I should do?”

- Anna (15)

“Bi Dating has always been an important counter-culture to the strict spectrum of so-called straight or gay dating sites” said Kendra Wilkins of GirlfriendsMeet.com “Finally people are getting past all the labels and setting aside their differences in search of a love and sexual excitement that is truly unlimited. On our sites we find so many women who pretty much ignore gender at this point and focus instead on the more important things that make for a successful match. Once you find someone attractive, smart, funny, caring, sexy and creative – who cares if they happen to be a man or a woman really? The key to Bi-Dating is finding a match first and going beyond the era of sexual stigmas.”

As the national political movement in the United States tilts the landscape toward gay marriage and the fabric of traditional relationships becomes strained by the unfolding possibilities of open relationships, mixed cultures or cross-gender romance – bisexual women are at the forefront of it all. Leading the digital community of singles, swingers and open-minded couples toward the most exciting era of erotic encounters in the history of our species. It’s a great time to be alive online without ever finding yourself along again thanks to terrific sites like Girlfriends Meet.

“That’s the thing really, from our point of view” said Wilkins “We really can’t take credit for all the great stuff going on, it’s our community that leads us, not the other way around. We provide terrific tools and moderate things to make sure it’s as safe an environment as possible. That safety and security gives the girls in our world the confidence to be themselves, bisexual or otherwise, and the results are simply terrific!”

“Theres this girl at work from another dept sending me mixed signals. She usually goes out of her way to say hi, and will say it louder until I say it back. She has shared some information about her home life, such has having a Jacuzzi  and about her friends, family, etc. She usually goes to a certain part of my departments area about 2:00 if shes done early, and waits for her shift to end. One day she comes up to me and asks if I missed her, I didnt know what to say so I said “oh”, she said im supposed to say yes. She often looks at her phone every few minutes “to tell time”. Today we were talking about the same music, and I sorta like this one country group, but I would be the only male there if I went, so she said I should go with her and her friend one day. I dont know, if she thinks of me as a friend, or a crush.”

- Joe (25, Whiting, IN)

“I’ve been dating this woman for 18 months. On Sunday i got mad at her because i felt she was criticizing me about my clothes so I went to bed and didn’t tell her why I was mad until the next day. Anyway, after I told her that she hurt my feelings she said that she doesn’t sugar coat things and everything she said was fact. She also said my attitude was funky all day Sunday. So I let it go. However, she’s been acting strange all week. When i text her she gives me one word answers. And I’ve call her twice but she didn’t return my calls. She texted me at 2 in the morning last night saying that she was away from her phone which I don’t buy that she was away from her phone for 5 hours. I asked why shes ignoring me and if she was mad and alright. She said that she hasn’t been ignoring me and that she was fine. I asked her to go out tomorrow night and she didn’t respond.

What should I do? Should I back off and give her some space? Should I ask her if she want’s to break up? We were suppose to go to a wedding on Saturday. She has never gone a week without talking to me. Please help me with this situation.

Regards,”

- Josh (33, Boston, ma)

“My boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago. We were fighting a lot and the breakup was understood by both of us. Since then, we’ve talked about our issues and I’ve told him I want to work on things because all the good we had is worth a second chance. I rarely reach out to him, but he casually reaches out to me a few times a week with generic how is it going questions. Multiple times he has gotten drunk and told me he loves me, wants to get back together, I make him happier than anyone, I’m amazing “95% of the time”, that looking back I made him so happy – but he just “doesn’t know”. When he is sober he will only commit to chatting casually making a point to say it doesn’t mean we are getting back together. I can tell when I’m with him that he does really love me, but why can’t he figure out what he wants? Do I keep this up and let him figure it out or do I just let it go? My heart has already been broken, but I feel like I can’t ignore him and I can’t let him go. I don’t know what to do. Please help.”

- Kaitlyn(25, Chicago, IL)

“i have a relationship with a boy.i havent had any relationship with any guy before. we have been talking to each other from 7 months now. but we both have been meet in tution clases 3 or 4 years ago. he is good at sometimes but he doesnt like to meet me or tell his or my friends about our relationship. he says , after the marriage i can tell anyone about him. he usually wants to make me jealous by saying about other girls n stuff and also irritating me by saying about a crush that i used to have years ago. i’m having a doubt that weather he really wants me or not. by the way he dsn’t hav ny intrest of meeting me yet.but we used to talk thru phone and he asks me to turn on sexualy through phone at times. thoz times he treats me good. i really love him. but when i ask him, he answrs that he dont know.and now he says he wants to live alone.and to be alone.what should i do?”

- HS (24)

“is it normal that my fiance does not want to meet my friends?”

- Janice (39)

“I’m confused I just started dating this girl.. I just don’t know what is going on! We started off great, she isn’t in the same state as me.. But we have met a couple of years back. We made it official but have only been dating for a little over two weeks.. I’ve been single for awhile now and she just got out of a relationship.. But anyway we would text and call each other all the time, she would say she misses me and I would the same.. Things got a little weird a few days ago and she started being very short in conversations and would hardly talk. Anyway I saw a post on Facebook from her.. So I texted her because it was obviously about her ex, I let her know that I am here for her and that I’m honest and respectful I just don’t want to suffer for others mistakes.. She said that she needs some time to clear her heart and that she needs time to think and that she needs me time.. She said I shouldn’t worry because she will call me when she gets better and that she is sorry!

I’m confused because I want to know where this is leading to?!? I feel like I am in limbo because there is no answer about if we are still together or if we are not… She did say that she still wants to come see me as we planned. But I’m lost at where I stand and is it even worth it to stick around and wait? Your honest opinion is appreciated.”

- Isabel (29)