Anon Asked:

“My story is complicated. I currently have a boyfriend who I’ve been with for almost 2 years. There is this other boy I’ve know since a little girl but began to like each other and develop love 9 years ago. We never got to establish a real relationship due to distance. But we were madly in love. My problem is that right now I’m loving him and my boyfriend at the same time. I think of him every single day and we barely talk because now he has a child and girlfriend. I feel that he still has feelings whenever we chat to see how life is going and so on. I just don’t know what to do? Do I tell him I still love him? Do I just stay with my current boyfriend and continue being tormented by the thoughts of the other guy in my head every single day? HELP. I don’t want to wonder for the rest of my life what if’s.”

- Anon (20)

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Sofia Asked:

“I met my bf on net and he’s from florida and i live in philipines, we are 2 far from eachother, i really want to see him and he told me that he loves me, we both believe in our relationshp.
But were 2 far and everythngs complicated, he’s older than me he’s 17 and iam 13. I get scared that one day he may nut love me anymore cause he mght find other girls. I’m scared to loose him. Cause ilove him, i can feel it and i want to hold his hands and hug him, i dont knw what to do to my life. What am i going to do?”

- Sofia (13, Phillipines)

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Beth Asked:

“My question is I love this woman but she attached and is very unhappy in her relationship. We dated for about a year but something happened to her after she told me she was filing so I did something very wrong and now regret this but asking will she try to connect with me in the future after we had shared some beautiful words and feelings together ? Even telling each other we had love for each other.”

- Beth (56, Nicholasville, KY)

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Rawr Asked:

“I want to love him.
I dated this guy for 11 months, things on my end just started going sour in between, certain things he did just started to annoy me. Whenever I’d try to talk to him about things he’d focus on one bad thing I said and wouldn’t look at the big picture. I no longer wanted to have sex with him, sometimes I didn’t want to be around him. Eventually we broke up, I wasnt ready but he kind of forced it out of me, I couldnt honestly tell him I still wanted to be with him. I can still see a future with him its just that he’s so immature at times I can’t stand it. He also acts like he has no common sense. He’s always blaming me for his sexual frustration, we’re trying to be friends, but he’ll get mad at me and say that he doesn’t want to be friends anymore and he wont talk to me anymore and I have to talk him out of it. He acts like I have no feelings at all, I wish he was the one. He can be very sweet and would never cheat on me or abuse me, but its just his mentality that bugs me. I have all hopes out that hell be the one in the end, he just needs to grow up. Am I foolishly thinking?”

- Rawr (18, SC)

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Tiya Asked:

“Well i dated this guy for 4 and a half years. things went smoothly for the 4 years but he started going out alot with his friends and this girl. he eventually broke up with me 6 months later so that he could be with her. it was hard but i let him go because she is what he wanted. but although he was dating her, he still kept calling and texting me to check how i am. recently he told me that they have been having some problems and that she controls him too much. it was not my place to tell him what to do with his relationship.

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Confused Asked:

“So I met this guy last july and he lives a couple towns over. We have talked on the phone and in person a lot. We both fell in love. Then I find out he has a gf still even though he said they broke up. I was upset he lied and broke my trust but he said he only did it because he didn’t want to lose me and that he was being selfish. He doesn’t want to be with her and hasn’t since we started getting serious. But he feels he can’t break up with her yet because her father JUST died. He doesn’t want to crush her anymore but I feel so bad that he’s with her. I love him and he loves me but should I wait for him or what? Idk what to do.”

- confused (16)

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Kelly Asked:

“I met this guy like 6 monthes ago in my college class and we started dating like a 2 monthes ago. A week ago I told him I loved him. Ever since then he’s been acting weird. we have a long distance relationship and we usually text eachother at night when we finally have “free” time. well the past week he has not been really texting me except once every couple days saying he loves me that he knows he gets in weird moods but is not because of me. He just does not want to fight and i always tell him i want to be there for him and the cycle is continuing to go on. I know there is not much i can do to spice things up in a long distance relationship right? Also i’m concerned hes shutting me out am I going crazy? I really love this guy but i need advice. im a mess…”

- Kelly (18, Nashville, TN)

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Jasmine Asked:

“I was having an internet relationship right now, me and my bf are almost 8 months now talking everyday and sharing all of things even if we dont meet in person,only at camera,one day I feel he hide something on me then, I ask how many times then finally he told me that he love someone, so I try to let him go but he doesnt want cos he still love me and he was still waiting for the girl to love him cos the girl loves her bf very much,but her bf is a stupid ,and thats what my bf wants to see that the girl will loved him too.its hurt but its true I really want to get out of this but I loved him, and he feel same way too ,what will I do ? Will I get over him even he dont like? I look like hanging but I accept I am really hurt but I have to decide please help me?”

- Jasmine (33, Philippines)

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Sush Asked:

“My story started on Jan 2010, she was working with me in my office and I liked her very much but she was just make me friend first time, but after some time on 1 day she called me after our office time and ask me to meet her in urgent, I meet her and I found something really heart breaking, she was crying and I ask what happen she told me that she was in love with 1 of our office mate and he told her that he is gating married with other girl to whom he is loving, it was heart breaking for her and me also I was never aware about that and she never told me about that, ok  Then she told me everything that night and cried so much,, that boy was never been liked by me and he just broke her heart, she told me everything because in my office I was only person who was her good friend that time because I helped her in her need,,, ok ,,
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Abbi Asked:

“ive been with my boyfriend for 8 going on 9 months when we are together its like nothing else matters everything is perfect. during our relationship we broke up twice because he doesnt trust me. i love him with everything i have and my everyday life even if im busy doing work he is on my mind. he doesnt open up to me, we text more than we are on the phone, when we are on the phone he sounds annoyed. he thinks that i delete my text messages before he comes to see me, and that certain things i dont add up. then again through all of that when we are together its amazing we both talk to eachother and let our feelings out. sometimes i just feel like he doesnt love me but he does so much things that nobody else sees. i want him to trust me and want to be with me emotionally as much as i am with him. im confused, and im lost and i am in love with him i just want him to see that.”

- Abbi (18, Miami, FL)

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