“Im caught in a intense love triangle with a girl ive been with for three years, and a girl i met years ago and we fell off,but just a few months got back in touch. The girl ive been with for three years i love to death but things have been rocky for the past couple months, from lies,and just pointles arguements. The other girl lives in another state now but ive see her a lot and she treats me so good,and i have caught so much feelings for her. My girl and i now just argue,and i mean i love her truly but i dont know what to do. I dont want to string either of them on..any helpful advice? Thank you”

- Leshawn (21, Bloomfield, CT)

“My story is complicated. I currently have a boyfriend who I’ve been with for almost 2 years. There is this other boy I’ve know since a little girl but began to like each other and develop love 9 years ago. We never got to establish a real relationship due to distance. But we were madly in love. My problem is that right now I’m loving him and my boyfriend at the same time. I think of him every single day and we barely talk because now he has a child and girlfriend. I feel that he still has feelings whenever we chat to see how life is going and so on. I just don’t know what to do? Do I tell him I still love him? Do I just stay with my current boyfriend and continue being tormented by the thoughts of the other guy in my head every single day? HELP. I don’t want to wonder for the rest of my life what if’s.”

- Anon (20)

“I met my bf on net and he’s from florida and i live in philipines, we are 2 far from eachother, i really want to see him and he told me that he loves me, we both believe in our relationshp.
But were 2 far and everythngs complicated, he’s older than me he’s 17 and iam 13. I get scared that one day he may nut love me anymore cause he mght find other girls. I’m scared to loose him. Cause ilove him, i can feel it and i want to hold his hands and hug him, i dont knw what to do to my life. What am i going to do?”

- Sofia (13, Phillipines)

“My question is I love this woman but she attached and is very unhappy in her relationship. We dated for about a year but something happened to her after she told me she was filing so I did something very wrong and now regret this but asking will she try to connect with me in the future after we had shared some beautiful words and feelings together ? Even telling each other we had love for each other.”

- Beth (56, Nicholasville, KY)

“I want to love him.
I dated this guy for 11 months, things on my end just started going sour in between, certain things he did just started to annoy me. Whenever I’d try to talk to him about things he’d focus on one bad thing I said and wouldn’t look at the big picture. I no longer wanted to have sex with him, sometimes I didn’t want to be around him. Eventually we broke up, I wasnt ready but he kind of forced it out of me, I couldnt honestly tell him I still wanted to be with him. I can still see a future with him its just that he’s so immature at times I can’t stand it. He also acts like he has no common sense. He’s always blaming me for his sexual frustration, we’re trying to be friends, but he’ll get mad at me and say that he doesn’t want to be friends anymore and he wont talk to me anymore and I have to talk him out of it. He acts like I have no feelings at all, I wish he was the one. He can be very sweet and would never cheat on me or abuse me, but its just his mentality that bugs me. I have all hopes out that hell be the one in the end, he just needs to grow up. Am I foolishly thinking?”

- Rawr (18, SC)

“Well i dated this guy for 4 and a half years. things went smoothly for the 4 years but he started going out alot with his friends and this girl. he eventually broke up with me 6 months later so that he could be with her. it was hard but i let him go because she is what he wanted. but although he was dating her, he still kept calling and texting me to check how i am. recently he told me that they have been having some problems and that she controls him too much. it was not my place to tell him what to do with his relationship.

about 3 weeks ago, he called me telling me that they broke up and we can finally be together. i didn’t believe him. last week he knew i was going out and met me at the place i told him i was going and told me that he loves me, he always has and always will. i told him i love him back because that is the truth.
we were talking all day everyday since then. but 2 days ago, he stopped and i have no idea why.

in the mean time, while i was trying to figure what happened to make him stop talking me, another guy that works close to me told me that he really likes me but he has a girlfriend. he comes to see me during my breaks, tells me he wishes i was his girlfriend and things like that.

im so confused. i dont know what to do or think. “

- Tiya (21, South Africa)
please help

“So I met this guy last july and he lives a couple towns over. We have talked on the phone and in person a lot. We both fell in love. Then I find out he has a gf still even though he said they broke up. I was upset he lied and broke my trust but he said he only did it because he didn’t want to lose me and that he was being selfish. He doesn’t want to be with her and hasn’t since we started getting serious. But he feels he can’t break up with her yet because her father JUST died. He doesn’t want to crush her anymore but I feel so bad that he’s with her. I love him and he loves me but should I wait for him or what? Idk what to do.”

- confused (16)

“I met this guy like 6 monthes ago in my college class and we started dating like a 2 monthes ago. A week ago I told him I loved him. Ever since then he’s been acting weird. we have a long distance relationship and we usually text eachother at night when we finally have “free” time. well the past week he has not been really texting me except once every couple days saying he loves me that he knows he gets in weird moods but is not because of me. He just does not want to fight and i always tell him i want to be there for him and the cycle is continuing to go on. I know there is not much i can do to spice things up in a long distance relationship right? Also i’m concerned hes shutting me out am I going crazy? I really love this guy but i need advice. im a mess…”

- Kelly (18, Nashville, TN)

“I was having an internet relationship right now, me and my bf are almost 8 months now talking everyday and sharing all of things even if we dont meet in person,only at camera,one day I feel he hide something on me then, I ask how many times then finally he told me that he love someone, so I try to let him go but he doesnt want cos he still love me and he was still waiting for the girl to love him cos the girl loves her bf very much,but her bf is a stupid ,and thats what my bf wants to see that the girl will loved him too.its hurt but its true I really want to get out of this but I loved him, and he feel same way too ,what will I do ? Will I get over him even he dont like? I look like hanging but I accept I am really hurt but I have to decide please help me?”

- Jasmine (33, Philippines)

“My story started on Jan 2010, she was working with me in my office and I liked her very much but she was just make me friend first time, but after some time on 1 day she called me after our office time and ask me to meet her in urgent, I meet her and I found something really heart breaking, she was crying and I ask what happen she told me that she was in love with 1 of our office mate and he told her that he is gating married with other girl to whom he is loving, it was heart breaking for her and me also I was never aware about that and she never told me about that, ok  Then she told me everything that night and cried so much,, that boy was never been liked by me and he just broke her heart, she told me everything because in my office I was only person who was her good friend that time because I helped her in her need,,, ok ,,
After that she started meeting me I was in love with her deadly and after few days from her breakup I expressed my feeling to her and she just smiled and told me that every 1 in her life tried to propose her because she was thinking that she is beautiful but the truth is she was pretty but not so attractive. after my propose she started meeting me called me from office because I was in service department so I was on tour every time, but I was unable to give her time it was my problem that time, but we always find time to meet, but she was having so much difficult nature she always want rich person as her boyfriend and or husband it was her dream and she always tell me that, in that time I was fresher in my job and I was not having enough payment to fulfill her wishes and that’s why she always messed with me and do fight over this region, she always tried to demand anything to me and so less of her demands I can able to fulfilled that time, ,,ok
After 6 months of our relations she advice me to join other company for better payment and to get settle as early as possible so I can rightfully demand her hands from her mother and she helped me to find other job, on oct 2010 I joined other job and worst come after I joined job they send me for long tour and she was angry and told me that she need some space from me just like break in relation for some time, and I granted her demand, on oct 15 I went to out of state for 2 months and returned on December 2010 she never tried to call me and I also, after my return I just visited my last office according to meet her, she was there and she didn’t try to talk to me, she looked so different and more nice then I left her on oct, then after office hours I meet her at her bus stop where we use to meet each other and she didn’t try to talk to me, I left her there I feel insulting on bus stop I tried to talk to her and she didn’t even try to see me I was talking like mad at there and peoples on bus stop looked to me like stupid,,,, ok
after some distance from bus stop she called me and told me that there is other man in her life now he was her elder sisters friend and she told me that she is in deeply in love with him and told me to get away from her happy life,,,, I was shock that time,, my world my dreams and everything get broken,
It feel like some 1 cut my heart with knife it was sadist day of my life and I feel so lonely that time, such a heart breaking, after that she left me and and told me that she and he will get marry on may 2011 ,,,
And they get marry on may this year,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,, her husband’s family was against that marriage and that’s y his elder brother tried to find out about her before her marriage, and he manage to find some 1 from my last office and ask him about her and he told him that she was in affair with me but not mention her ex bf who left her before me, and then her brother in low told her husband before her marriage about me, then she tried to call me and ask help to told her husband that there is nothing between us, and I do that just she says, bec I never wanted to hurt her and don’t want to break her engagement after this she get marry, and she is leaving happy married life this I have heard from some friends,,, but the problem is she felt that it was me who hint her brother in law about our affair and that’s y she never want to talk about me and see my face but that time I was not in city for 2 months and I would never do that this is first thing second thing is,,,,,
I can’t remove her from my heart, I can’t forget her because I was deeply in love with her, she always told me to MOVE ON, but I can’t, she is part of my life and I am feeling so sad this days………….
Dear friends please tell me what was my fault?. Why she left me?. And what can I do next? ,,,Please give me advise.
Your Faithfully,,
S……….”

- Sush (26, Mumbai,Maharashtra, India)