It looks like just because you’re a famous celebrity blogger, it doesn’t guarantee that you’ll find love—at least that is what Perez Hilton is claiming.

The gossip blogger recently announced that he would be joining Match.com in order to try and find himself a man that met his standards, and he announced his new adventure on Twitter.

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Has Face book and MySpace Become the New Excuse for Couples to break up?
Social websites such as Face book and MySpace have reportedly been referenced as reasons of divorce and breakups within relationships.

•Are these sites really too blame?

•Is the accessibility of these sites too much temptation for people to handle?

•Or, are we allowing ourselves to blame our partners bad behavior on the sites rather than their level of self control?

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Confused Asked:

“My boyfriend and I met off of a dating website and have been together for 10 months now. I have never felt this way about anyone and am completely in love with this man. We moved in together after 5 months of dating and I have been in heaven. He has many female friends which I have not been threatened by due to I was confident in our relationship. His phone does go off constantly and he is very protective of his phone due to his past but again I have been confident with my place in our relationship and was not concerned, annoyed yes but not jealous. Recently I found out that he has been on craigslist searching the personal ads and talking to other women stating he wanted to get to know them etc. He says it is a need to window shop like all guys do but this hurt me so bad and rocked my confidence in who I was in our relationship. He states he has not met up with anyone but he just talks to them and does advise them he has a girlfriend. He says that it is innocent and he always comes home to me and if nothing else talking to these other women pushes him closer to me. He admitted that he has a low self esteem (which is beyond me because he is absolutely gorgeou) and has a need to window shop and know he is attractive to other women but that he is completely in love with and devoted to me. I have heard of similar issues with male friends of mine who have the need to flirt etc but that wasn’t in my relationship. Now that it is, I am very concerned and don’t really know how to take this. Does this mean he is not happy with me or that I am not good enough, or is this something a lot of men just do? Why do men feel the need to flirt and get attention from other women when they are supposedly in love with someone else…is this innocent or is this leading up to me being cheated on? Please also noted that my boyfriend is 9yrs older than me and recently lost his business due to the economy and is on depression meds while fighting his ex for child custody of their 8yr old daughter. So he has a lot going on in his world but has shown me and told me over and over that he was not expecting to ever find a woman like me and he doesn’t feel he deserves a woman like me. I am just so confused on how to handle this and what to do. I am really on the fence with it and just don’t understand it???”

- Confused (29, TX)

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Caris Asked:

“Im dating a guy from mxit and we’ve exchanged pictures and we started dating. now he’s acting weird. how do i get him to love me more because i really love him and he doesnt seem to have time for me these days.”

- Caris (16, Durban)

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In our modern world, your personal information is easier for people to find than you may realize.  Take these steps if you want to make sure a potential partner does not find anything online that shows you in a negative light or you know it is time to clean up your act.

It has been all over the news and yet some people still think that their online information will not be seen by anyone other than their “friends”.  You are wrong.

A recent poll showed that almost 80% of  the people you meet to date will do search for online information about potential partners.  While less than 10% of people dating online realize this.

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Thanks to social networking sites such as Hi5, Badoo, and Facebook, the way people are meeting and dating has changed dramatically in the past few years. We all know how hard it is to meet someone new since it only happens if you go to a bar or a club hoping to make the right conversation and not get turned down. Of course you can also meet someone by getting introduced to them by either friends or family, but how often does that really happen?

Social networks have become sort of like an electronic bar or online club (like shaddi.com) in a way, as people all over the world are using these sites to meet and get to know new people daily. Add to that the fact that it is so easy and you will see why these sites have become the place to be.

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Finding a compatible partner to date is never easy. If you are looking for singles in the USA then the dating pool of compatible partners is even smaller. Use information that is available on the Internet to help you get ahead on the dating scene. If you do not have a specific woman that you are interested in, online dating sites are a great way to meet many women. By meeting different women at the same time this will help you find the person that’s the best fit for you. Of course the quality of the person is what is most important. If you want to find someone that is smart, beautiful, and funny it will take some effort online to learn where the right woman for you is. Before you sign up for a site, take the time to do some research. Perform a Google search to see how users rate or review different matchmaking sites. Join several online dating sites at the same time. You would not expect to meet the perfect woman for you by going to the same bar every Saturday, so cast a wider net and increase your chances of meeting someone perfect for you by seeing who’s online. Signing up for at least three sites will help you accomplish this.

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Anne Asked:

“I met this wonderful man on Match.com and we really connected. He is 40. I am 32. We started going out over a month ago. For some reason, I felt really comfortable with him and revealed alot about myself to him right away: the fact that I was raped 10 years ago, the fact that I struggle with anorexia and depression… (Although, I am getting much better… truly. I am making every effort to get healthy… for my sake, not his). I realize that I should not have disclosed so much so soon, but it’s too late to change that now. He seemed so sympathetic and understanding, though, and I really, REALLY like him. He has revealed alot of personal things about himself to me, too. I am finding myself caring very much about him. We even got very intimate physically very fast (though I haven’t slept with him yet… but we have come close). It is very hard for me to trust men, considering what I went through, but I feel so comfortable and safe with him… and I don’t want to let that go. However, two weeks ago, he called me up and said that he didn’t think we should continue dating. I fear that he was kind of freaked out by all my problems, as he has many issues of his own. He suffers from anxiety and panic attacks and is in between jobs at the moment. But I am very empathetic to his plight, I really am, but it doesn’t seem to help. He was married for 15 years and got divorced two years ago. I don’t think he is quite over that yet. He told me that he really has strong feelings for me and is very attracted to me, but he is afraid of hurting me because he thinks this will not work out in the end. But, I don’t agree. I think this could go somewhere (although, I know that there are no guarantees). We still talk (just chatting on facebook), and it seems that he is still interested (he tells me how much he likes me), but he is pulling back. I want him to call me. I am afraid to call him, as I don’t want to seem pushy and I don’t want to scare him further away. I just want him to give us a chance and see where it goes. I have explained to him that I am not asking for a commitment right now and that I am willing to take things slowly. But I can’t seem to put his mind at ease and lessen his confusion. What can I say to him? I just want him to give it a try. Is there hope for this? I am not sure what else to do. How do I convince him to take a risk and take a chance on me?”

- Anne (32, Los Angeles, CA)

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Dawn Asked:

“I recently joined one of those silly networking sites, After several days I came across a man who at first glance was very attractive. After farther investigation I came to find that this man has far going for him then his exceptional good looks. A day to think on it and a “why the hell not” I decided to go ahead and contact him, which in tern worked to my benefit because he responded. After several emails later we decided to take it off of the internet and I called him. Me, being the type of person I am can hold a random conversation with just about anybody. In his profile it specifically states to not assume that he is any different from anybody else. When in fact he is according to my opinion. He is far more in depth, verbally competent and wittier then anyone I have ever spoke to. After a long conversation that reached far into the night, I exited the conversation feeling inadequate, that my communication skills failed me at the most inopportune time and that I hadn’t represented myself properly. I have never felt like this before and since I felt this way It hindered my ability to call him the next day even though I was asked to. I’m not sure if it is my pride or ego or maybe I felt threatened when I felt he was trying to get into my head so quickly. I still find him very intriguing, but I just can’t bring myself to call again. So basically my question is, what the hell is wrong with me?”

- Dawn (31, Detroit Michigan U.S)

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Danielle Asked:

“Me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 1 month (okay.. not long.. i know) We met through the internet (not the best way, I admit) but I know some of his friends and met his family, since his house & school is so close to mine. He’s really gentle, caring and innocent. Still plays with plushies! Although – At first I wondered how he could ‘love’ me so easily. We kissed right when we saw eachother, and only met eachother like 2~3 days prior. I thought it was strange, but I trusted in it. There was a bit of drama concerning my ex, but we overcame it, and hes still with me. But just recently I found out about just how many girls he’s been with.. about 5 or 6. 3 or 4 of them in real life, the others via internet. They had ALOT of drama with him. I mean ALOT. And to all of them he said the same things. “I will love you forever~!” “Always only you<3″ He told me he was a virgin , and we’ve had sex more than once already. Then his ex messaged me telling me, “you wont last long. he will just convince you to have unprotected sex with him like he did to me, and then move to another girl. probably will only last 2 weeks max!”

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