She Asked:

“This guy i met trough internet, and now we are having s long distance relationship. But nothing goes right… sometimes he is good to me sometimes he is not…he says he wants to be with me and he only wants me…but we keep fighting around little and stupid stuff…he keeps coming back and apologizing and i keep taking him back… ever time we talk on the phone he says that he is crazy about my voice and that he cant help his self and he masturbates everytime he hears me talking…i dont know what to do, how to handle this situation? sometimes i think he loves me but sometimes i feel like he is just using me?”

- She (21)

Sofia Asked:

“I met my bf on net and he’s from florida and i live in philipines, we are 2 far from eachother, i really want to see him and he told me that he loves me, we both believe in our relationshp.
But were 2 far and everythngs complicated, he’s older than me he’s 17 and iam 13. I get scared that one day he may nut love me anymore cause he mght find other girls. I’m scared to loose him. Cause ilove him, i can feel it and i want to hold his hands and hug him, i dont knw what to do to my life. What am i going to do?”

- Sofia (13, Phillipines)

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Jasmine Asked:

“I was having an internet relationship right now, me and my bf are almost 8 months now talking everyday and sharing all of things even if we dont meet in person,only at camera,one day I feel he hide something on me then, I ask how many times then finally he told me that he love someone, so I try to let him go but he doesnt want cos he still love me and he was still waiting for the girl to love him cos the girl loves her bf very much,but her bf is a stupid ,and thats what my bf wants to see that the girl will loved him too.its hurt but its true I really want to get out of this but I loved him, and he feel same way too ,what will I do ? Will I get over him even he dont like? I look like hanging but I accept I am really hurt but I have to decide please help me?”

- Jasmine (33, Philippines)

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Jayakumar Asked:

“I got a friend on online….we both studying same are of engineering….she is living in another city,theres 4hours journey,,.we daily do chating…after she gaved me her mobile number,we daily chated night 10 to morning 4 o clock….but she never talked with me, just only chatting,,,once i proposed her, but she said no to me..i will talk with her openly,just like i will kiss your lips, hug you and many more….some time she got angry and talk again..some times she said you are my brother..then i scold her she will stop after i proposed aslo she talked with me whole nights….after few days she stopped talking with me….she said if you talk with me i will thow the sim,but i still send msgs to her..once i got a reply from a girl that she got the sim somewhere…..but i know that is my lover……she stopped talking with me….i love her very much….she doent like me because she doesnt like intercast marriage…I really loving her,,,i cant study my exams are near….i know i had lost many things, i just dnt getting mind to study but i want her….what i have to do….please help.”

- Jayakumar (19, Andhra Pradesh, India)

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Dee Asked:

“My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months. We are in a long distance relationship, she lives in Washington I live In NY. We met online on a blog site..instantly connected and had so many things in common and fell madly in love. We met each other in person over a month ago and things went great. She stayed for about two weeks..but after I saw her leave for home I just got so depressed and everything and now it just seems going back to Skype and the telephone its harder. We have been fighting a lot lately and I have been having these doubts that it won’t be the same as we first saw each other a month ago. I plan on going up there at the end of the month I just don’t want to keep arguing..and we usually make up in the same day but its just taking a toll on both of us emotionally. I love her so much and I want to be with her I just want some advice on how to keep a distance relationship going and how I can get rid of these doubts I am having? Also how to deal with jealousy, I have real bad jealousy issues and its not like I don’t trust her..I just don’t trust other people plus they get to see her all the time. Please I want to keep this going. Thank you!”

- Dee (18, NY)

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Liia Asked:

“Lately I have been thinking that there probably is something I do wrong when communicating with men. And I have not really figured out what is it.

I am 33 year old woman and now single again after 4 year relationship. I have had couple of relationships before. Now I am trying to meet new men, although I am not desperate about finding someone. But for some reason even dating does not go the way I was hoping.
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GSP Asked:

“i use a lot of run on sentences i think

she is 6 years younger than me and attending college 2nd yr and i am finally starting classes next semester which is something i should have done a long time ago. and she has a medically diagnosed mental problem that she is supposed to take medication for but is not taking it right now and i don’t know what the disorder is or the medicine because the doctors that she saw are in her home country which is not in the usa where we currently reside and i havent gotten the chance to find her pill bottle to attempt to translate it so i can find out how to cope with her problem. I know they have support groups for people with mental disorders like bi polar or adhd. her problem involves her “temper” i think she might have occasional severe anxiety attacks. whenever she gets really upset she starts hyperventilating and passes out but anything could set her off the first time it happened was when we had a marker fight she after we finished the marker fight and she saw the marks on her self and she started freaking out and i tried to calm her down but she just kept breathing harder and crying and then passed out.. the second time we were arguing and it happened again they have seemed to have tapered off substantialy as she has been taking her medication however she states as of recently she is no longer taking it. my 20 yr old gf says she doesnt love me anymore but think she does because we have been through the breakup phase a few times in the past and dealt with claims by her of infidelity on her part. once she told me that she cheated on me but she wants to still be with me and she still loves me and so i stayed with her. before this happened she said that she was with a guy she liked and i went to her and saw that she was lying to me. i knew she was mad so i thought she was just trying to make me mad but this time i know she really is talking to a guy becasue i heard her on the phone with him. and when she gets angry about the smallest things that i try my hardest to do and to remember and i do as much as i can i would say 99.8 percent of the time like accidentally barely kicking the outside of the bottom of her car door floor plastic panel when i enter the vehicle or the most recent event is when i try to apoligize for tapping her too hard when we play a game with each other called Hit hit hit in which we tap each other on any body part and say you’re bad.. No You’re bad!! she says that i am trying to control the way she feels and i am trying to force her to be happy when i make her angry whether it is my fault or not i dont want to dp anything to make her mad i treat her as best as can i only want the best for her i want to take care of her and make sure she is safe and feels good and is happy as much as possible. AI know she is happy with me i can see it in her smiles and hear it in her laughter and see it in her eyes when she looks at me and when we talk to each other. i feel like we really have a lot of fun when we are together most of the time.. when she is not angry we really do enjoy being around each other and doing everything that we do together it seems like she is really busy with school right now though as exams are coming up and she going to go back to her home country in two weeks for 3 months until hopeful return to the usa. Now i know that i am not a perfect person.. i know i have faults like everyone does. But all in all I want everyone in the world to be happy and not to have strife i want everyone to be nice to each other and help one another when in need. i dont like to see people being taken advantage of and i dont have any ill will or hateful feelings towards anyone in the world generally speaking. i have been wronged in the past but i have learned there is nothing that can be done except but to learn from situations and to learn from my own and other peoples mistakes. since we have been together i have quit smoking i have had steady work and i have learned progesivley to more often have un selfish feelings within myself and towards people in general.

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Nowadays, there are millions of online dating sites all over the world. It makes it so hard to choose the right online dating site. We’ve made it easy and narrowed down a few online dating sites that are our top picks. Here is our list of best online dating sites in the market today.

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Kylie Asked:

“I need help coming up with ideas for my long distance relationship. My current problem is figuring out what to do in an all day Skype video call.

My boyfriend and I have never met in person, He lives in Canada while I’m in the U.S. We’ve known one another for almost 6 years, and started ‘dating’ 2 and a half years ago. I can’t say I trust anyone more than I trust him. We’re the same age, both just turning 17 within the past few months, but we’ve never tried to… “sext” or “cyber.”

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Online relationships have got a pretty mixed reputation, with good reason. Some online relationships are absolute disasters, others are triumphs of communication and love. It’s important to take a realistic view of any online relationship before you start shopping for travel insurance.

Online pleasures

The great side of online relationships can be the utterly unexpected people you meet. Friends can be made all over the world. There’s no lack of these good quality relationships, whatever else may be said about the perils of online romance. These are the healthy online relationships, and, not at all coincidentally, they’re also the ones most likely to lead to productive results.

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