Jason Asked:

“Why would my boyfriend rather masturbate to porn rather than have sex with me? He does it everyday and we haven’t been intimate in several weeks.”

- Jason (36, Green Bay, WI. USA)

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This is the first of a series of short stories (Girl Shorts) that I am writing to encourage anyone who sees someone (boy or girl) who catches your interest, and find a way to approach them- because you just never know.  Remember be creative!

This one is called “The Bet”

Girls, girls, girls…they can sure scramble ones’ libido. Women can be sexy, seductive, captivating, inspiring and it doesn’t matter if they are tall, short, thin, rubenesque, if you find one who catches your eye just right. If you don’t take a shot at a girl who scrambles your libido, you’re an idiot. You’ve got nothing to lose but the loss of not taking the shot. The key, be creative and get her attention.

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Nicole Asked:

“My fiance has had hand jobs from other men, done hand jobs on other men and also likes to use sex toys in his anus…he doesn’t keep an erection when we try to have sex and he only climaxes when he masturbates or uses the anal toys…he says our sex is amazing…but other signs point to him not enjoying it..he usually has to read gay porn to get and keep an erection during sex with me…could he be gay or am I just not sexually attractive to him? Or is it me?”

- Nicole (20)

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It looks like just because you’re a famous celebrity blogger, it doesn’t guarantee that you’ll find love—at least that is what Perez Hilton is claiming.

The gossip blogger recently announced that he would be joining Match.com in order to try and find himself a man that met his standards, and he announced his new adventure on Twitter.

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Rita Asked:

“I am in a relationship from past 5 years. Both his and my parents have problems with our relationship as we are from different caste. We have decided a long back we will not get married until they agree. We will wait till our life time. This issue is not at all a problem.

He is really a nice guy. We love each other very much. I think he has changed a bit like he used to do some small small things before now he says why are you bothered about simple things. Before we used to speak too much with each other. Now, he is most of the time silent. If we fight also he is silent. Even today we are always on the phone but he speaks less If I disconnect the call he will not call me back he says that I was about to call you and you called me. Which is what is completely different what he used to do before. He was the one who used to call me always. This discussion we have had three four times now and once he apolozied about not calling back. Its that he gets upset and I also get upset then who should solve the issue. He once switched off his phone and sitting at house in a upset mood after we had a fight and did not call me back so I have to go to his room to check out if he his ok. Thats when he apolozied and said that I will do that again. But, it is still continuing. 
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Amazingly enough dear readers, we are at the end of another year. I’m sure we will remember the past with as much passion as we embrace the future. What will the New Year hold for us, a new job, new home, love, heartbreak or maybe something unimagined?

As a writer, I can often find myself at a loss for words when the issue is very close to my heart. In this instance, a friend asked me to describe my Dreamgirl, not an easy task but I know that when I envision her…”All I have to do is dream.”

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Charles Asked:

“My wife says that she was born gay not bi but gay and really believes it. She cant turn off her attraction to girls but she says she loves me and only me. My question is whether or not she can really love me if she believes she was born gay and will our relationmship last?”

- Charles (26, Killeen,TX)

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As a reminder to our reader’s. somewhere in my past I once performed as a drag king. Helped along by a friend’s training in theatrical make-up, sporting a full beard, mustache, cowboy hat, I performed as Midnight Cowboy for a period of 3-5 yrs. I had the privilege of performing with some of the best female impersonator’s, culminating with my performance at Atlanta’s Premier Cabaret club, Illusions in the mid 80’s.

So after 25 years of not performing, I issued a challenge for someone to spot and recognize me as Midnight Cowboy on Halloween, while I was out and about in Wilton Manors. Well as these things go this became not just another adventure but another great story destined for the pages of Gir(L).

In preparation for my night out, I had to go in search of the necessary items for the make-up to be effective as well as dusting off my cowboy hat and trusty six guns. So I hit the stores for just 2 items, crepe hair and spirit gum, and was able to find it easy enough at a local costume store. I decided to do a practice make-up session to be sure that I still had the talent to pull this off.

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Joe Asked:

“My wife has had a brief bisexual encounter when she was an adolescent. She kissed another female and the other female felt her breasts. She recently mentioned to me that she is curious as to what it would be like to be with a woman. How can I help her explore her fantasy without introducing another person in our relationship. As a man how can I help her experience her fantasy? I would like womens point of view.”

- Joe (40, Houston, TX)

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First dates, first kiss, first times…are so essential to how we form our ideas for love. But what does love have to do with it? Today, everyone has their own perception of what love should be. Some of the most common reasons are for romance, solid relationship, compatibility, future, financial stability, kids, etc…While some of might settle for a lesser version of the dream, it is our own unique vision that keeps us out there searching for love.

I have come across women, who have actual lists of things someone must have before they will even date?

Here is a short list of examples:

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