10. Bad sex
This seems to me to be the most preventable one of the 10! See my entry on are you a dead fish? I once had bad sex and that relationship lasted about a week! However to be really honest I have often put up with bad sex to be with someone I loved. It eventually led to a break up because I was too unsatisfied in this area. Here is where the problem lies… I didn’t tell her. I broke up with her instead of making my needs clear. Could you be in the same boat? Is your boy hiding his dissatisfaction from you?

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When I was younger I would look at women as an aloof untouchable race that HAD to be captured. They were such a strange prey! They didn’t know whether they liked being hunted or not. After a hunt I would get together with my hunting buddies and talk about the conquest. The one that just barely escaped or the one that turned and attacked! It was as if we were in an ancient lodge smoking cigars and cleaning our shotguns instead of being at the high school lunch table.

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Ever heard the saying people don’t change? Is that true? Is that fair? I am sure that you in your life have changed often. Grown into a better person, become more patient and more accepting. Is it possible that he could have changed too? Is it possible that he will be the perfect man from now on?

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I got this question from a reader the other day and I liked it a lot so I wanted to share it with you. Simple question but difficult answer!

From Casey:

“How soon is too soon for a woman to sleep with a guy? Any chance she’ll get a relationship while holding out? Or is it like the new beer that came out on the market, every man has gotta try one bottle before they buy a case, if they walk into one bar and they don’t have it, he’ll go find one that does? Help me out a bit here. lol.”

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My good friend Lacy is so cool. She has her shit together in so many ways. She is a single mother raising a sweet little two year old daughter. Unfortunately Lacy has a problem, she is upside down, in other words her money in does not equal money out. Lacy feels trapped in her situation, she feels that she can not jeopardize her current income because she has a daughter relying on her. She also believes she cannot lower her expenses because she has a daughter relying on her! She is in a downward financial spiral and like so many other women she toys with the idea of meeting a rich man to pull her out of her financial nightmare. I know Lacy can change her situation on her own but that is for a self help blog! So Lacy asked me just the other day. “Mike, if you are so good at the guy and relationship stuff. Teach me how to meet a rich guy!” “hmmm…” said I raising one concerned eyebrow.

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What the hell is going on? You ask yourself as your boyfriend other gets wishy washy around your plans for Christmas. “You told me that you were able to go with me to my parents house?” he responds lamely about his dog needing to get spayed that day. You hang up the phone pissed and confused, wanting to go over to his work and embarrass his spineless ass in front of his coworkers, Jerk…

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