When you tell people you are getting a divorce, a look of remorse and pity instantly comes across their faces. Of course, most of us instantly match their pained expressions with our own “woe is me” face complete with downcast eyes followed by “It’s hard but I’ll be okay.” Does this sound familiar?
Well damn it, stop it! Next time someone asks how your ex spouse is doing you pipe up with “I’m divorcing the jerk, hallelujah!” Smile a happy smile, and start laughing. You’re asking me, “Kim, what am I laughing about?” I’m glad you asked.
I have great advice for everyone who needs to get control of their love life. Ready? You need to…forgive. That’s right, to have a successful love life after a break up or divorce, you must forgive your ex. Before you protest, read these 7 tips to help you forgive. Forgiveness will not only free you of your ex, but benefit you and your future relationships.
There is no better way of maintaining a healthy and exciting sex life than by constantly reinventing yourself and spicing things up all the time.
Going through a divorce is one of the most difficult things that you will have to encounter. Acknowledging and accepting your feelings is the first step to healing. Recovering emotionally is not an easy task, but one that can be done successfully to ensure a whole, happy life with proper time and healing.
