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Fighting comes naturally, peacefully resolving conflict does not.  I am sure that you can remember all too well fights that you have had in your own relationship.  The problem with fighting is that no one wants to “lose” the fight so we lock into combat that almost always escalates into dysfunction.  That dysfunction can be screaming, throwing things, cursing and/or hitting a spouse.

I had a couple as a client locked into dysfunction.  The woman had gotten into a pattern of screaming, cursing and throwing things.  The husband admirably did not hit her, but tried to keep the peace because of what the wife’s tirades and tantrums did to the children.  She once broke her own finger by repeatedly slamming the front door harder and harder. Problems were never resolved; she just bullied the husband to get her own way. I could not reach her and they ultimately got a divorce.  She continued these patterns in a subsequent marriage.

I always tell my clients to first go and study two movies from the rental store:  THE BREAK UP, and WAR OF THE ROSES. You can see art imitating life.  Study these movies and see yourselves portrayed in these movies.  Watch and see the mistakes that they have made and that you have made similar mistakes as well.  Children are terrified when they hear parents fighting.  Remember the scene from PRINCE OF TIDES when the young children ran and jumped into the bay.  They lived in an idyllic setting on an island.  They escaped by running out of the house and jumping into the water.  Most children don’t have that option and simply suffer through the fights, terrified. If you have not seen The Prince of Tides, it is also mandatory on my homework list.

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You have reached that magical second date.  What to do, where to go?  Great possibilities are in the air, you don’t want to blow it now.  What do you do?

Well the idea is that you want to do something that is fun, but you want to keep the conversation going because this is about getting to know each other.  You want to have fun, but you still need to get to know each other and that involves conversation, a lot of it. The last thing that you want to do is go to the movies.  You can’t or shouldn’t talk in the movies.  So I have come up with some great ideas.

This is a perennial question that bugs both boys and men for centuries.  Women obviously don’t think like men so men try and figure them out. I am here to help you out.

1. The very first thing that women like is strong self confident men.  Even if you are not strong or self confident, you must act like it and fake it til you make it.  I am not saying lie, but you need to act more self confident.  Pretty soon you are feeling more self confident.  One of the things that will help your self confidence is taking karate.  It engenders more self confidence plus strength, plus being able to protect the woman that you care about.  This self confidence projects itself to potential bullies.  When you show no fear because you know that you can take him out, guys read that in your eyes and will back down.

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It is true that there are jerk men who feel the need to assuage their egos by carving notches in the bedposts.  If you are married to this kind of guy, my heartfelt concerns are for you.  These guys never get filled up because they lack self respect.

For the rest of you, the answer is easy;  satisfy his needs.

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I know you have all heard of foreplay, but how many have heard of sexual post play? Well, I am here to tell you if you follow my suggestions for post play; you will become a hero in the bedroom. You will be talked about by your wife or girlfriend. That’s right, women talk about us and how we do in the bedroom as well. They just don’t tell you about it. They also talk to me in my job as a marriage, relationship and sexual coach. I hear that you guys just roll over and go to sleep leaving your women too often unsatisfied and unable to sleep and feeling ignored and left out.

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There is a dirty little secret in the marriage counseling industry. 75% of all couples who go to marriage counseling end up being divorced. There is a quiet revolution taking place in this country where some forward thinking counselors are abandoning the traditional counseling methods and adopting a “coaching” style. A couple of well known counselors have made the transition like Michelle Weiner Davis, author of: DIVORCE BUSTING and Dr. Willard Harley, author of HIS NEEDS HER NEEDS.

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