Some have it and some do not…Gaydar…the ability to sense what another’s sexual preference might be. Haven’t you ever heard someone say, “I have great gaydar! I can tell that person is gay because of this reason…” I would have to admit that my gaydar must be broken! The only way I detect someone is gay, is if they admit it. Or if they are overly masculine women or very effeminate men. But this rule does not always apply and is not a great way to distinguish someone’s sexuality.

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The moment of loss sometimes, it is like a lightening bolt

an unexpected illumination that can cause devastation
when it hits the ground
or just bright light that rips across a darken sky

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As a lesbian nearing 30 years of being out, I finally felt compelled to write an article about bi-sexual women and to put a different spin on the ongoing debates about them. There are those who embrace them and those who dismiss them as soon as the word bisexual is uttered. I find there are as many different types of bisexuals as there are lesbians. Each woman coming with their own unique thoughts and ideas about what being a bisexual is.

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In a lifetime, we experience love, sadness, happiness and even death
but how we choose to live that life is what defines us
how will you live yours?
on the front lines?
or behind them?  Afraid of what might be before you…
waiting for your discovery

So many of us are afraid of what life holds
that we stay bound by what is safe and known
instead of venturing outside the line of our reality
with the knowledge that life is calling
and adventure awaits those that are strong of heart
and ready to embark upon on a journey of a lifetime

Gina Landeau
Hello0 Ms Heartbreak, I’ve been expecting you!

In a 3 part series of articles, entitled “For The Love Of A Lady”, I have been writing a story about a woman I have been dating. In part 1, I reproduced a heartfelt letter after she had called off the relationship, then in part 2, I discussed my fears and the opinions of friends. And now in part 3, I reveal her answer, after an unbearable 10 days of silence…

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Funny, how words and dreams can get mixed up and make the real world seem somehow unreal. How many times can we put our hearts out there for one more chance and when do we just quit trying? There will always be etched memories of the past that find their way into out daily thoughts. But how is it that, it actually keeps us at times from living the life we dream? I have once again discovered love but yet, is it just an illusion or is this finally the real thing? The physical attraction and love is there and it’s real…the familiarity of kindred spirits is rare, but when it happens….every moment is precious. She possesses something I have always dreamed of, when she is at my side I have no more need for dreams. So as life continues to unfold…I try once more try to put things into perspective with Part 2 of…”All For The Love Of A Lady.”

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Have you ever wondered why things happen the way they do? Do you ever wonder if only I had said the right words she might have stayed? In my recent search for Cinderella, I came across a special lady, who called to my heart like no other had in a very long time. All the lights were green for this new love to become the epitome of what I had always been searching for. But you know fear can be a beast that is hard to tame and can often leave us wondering what if? So the letter that follows is my attempt to fight back the beast that appeared seemingly out of nowhere to throw a monkey wrench into this budding new love.

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Once upon a time, there was a knight in search of his personal salvation, thereby creating a quest that at times seemed hopeless.The great journey of this knight spanned so many years, encompassing so many emotions and displays of inner strength against what seemed like insurmountable odds. yet uncertainty haunted this knight as the blackness of night envelopes the light of day.

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In my dreams of dreams, I’ve always dreamed of you
Somehow some way I knew that life would lead you back to the beauty that is our love

A vision of 2 souls re-connecting after an eternity of searching and wandering

In a world where love is sometimes forgotten
as the lost soul yearns for it’s mate

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The words have been spoken
and my heart beats slower
but the memories remain in my heart
Wake me whe it’s over

The love we enjoyed, all the good and bad
has left us both broken and emotionally drained
Wake me when it’s over

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