Expert advice to get your relationships back on track
D Ivan Young is a Relationship Expert & Best Selling Author with an insightful yet provocative teaching style he has been hailed by millions of fans across the country as remarkable. His simple, direct and uncomplicated approach soothes bruised hearts and sparks new ways of perceiving old jaded ideas about love, romance and relationships. Angelically insightful best describes his approach to teaching, lecturing, counseling and ministry. Utilizing an authentic and engaging rhetorical presentation, his message is packaged to reach the masses; if you have a PHD or GED you won’t miss a beat hearing him speak. D Ivan Young makes complicate relationship issues seem simple and within anyones grasp. He has helped men and women of all ages, races and doctrines develop authentic, healthy, Godly, lasting relationships. He states, “Everybody deserves to be love by God and the right person, even if that person is yourself. You are somebody special. Despite what you’re going through at the moment know that there is a special plan for the rest of your life.” Over the years D. Ivan Young has been interviewed on or featured in Associated Press Releases, CNN Radio, CBS, ABC, MSN, Yahoo News, Gospel Impact Radio, The Chicago Tribune, New York Times, Chicago Tribune, Your 15 Minutes, 24 Hour Mom, Divine Canada Women's Magazine, Sex With Sue, Your Time With Kim, CBS Television's Great Day Houston just to name a few. He is a featured expert on Selfgrowth.com, Love Detour.com, and Commitment Now.com. His new book Break Up, Don’t Break Down is highly recommended for women’s groups and singles ministries. If your getting married, going through a separation, break up or just want to rejuvenate your marriage. Visit the website at www.divanyoung.com or follow him on Facebook, D Ivan Young, Best Selling Author and Air Personality. Young is highly recommended for workshops, seminars, conferences and speaking engagements. You can contact him at diyou@msn.com
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2011
I’m sure before you began this last relationship, your inner voice urged you to be a bit more patient, to chill, or maybe even run like hell, but you didn’t heed it. Your feelings overshadowed your common sense. Had you not ignored your inner voice, more than likely that’d be one less heartache you experienced. After today, we aren’t going to do that again. Are we?
2010
Handling intrusive family members, prying friends and nosey parishioners while going through a breakup is never easy. It’s tough enough coming to grips with the fact your relationship is over. Throw in the frustrations, disappointments, stress and anger, plus, dealing with guilt as you confront the opinions of relatives, in-laws and your circle of friends can be a major source of irritation. In addition to the fact you’re going through hell right now, trying to live up to other people’s expectations is a major pain in the butt. With all this stuff going on you cannot abandon yourself to fulfill their illusions. If you do, you’re headed for serious trouble. Take a deep breath, I have good news. This chapter is going help you to shut them up, relieve you of your guilty conscience, shift the focus to comforting you with an emphasis on enjoying the rest of your life.
The fact that you love your family and friends is a good thing. But, it’s NOT FAIR, when you, or them, uses your relationship with them to make you feel remorse because your relationship is in a tail spin. There is a big difference between dealing with karma because you did some heinous act versus coming to terms with a failed relationship. The reason is that it ended doesn’t matter. We can pick any old scape goat to beat you with. It’s totally irrelevant.
2010
Ending a relationship is never easy. Chances are, that relationship you’re ending has been knocking at death’s door for quite some time now. Maybe it should’ve never begun to start with. The handwriting has been on the wall, but you didn’t have the courage to say that it’s over. It’s not easy, and getting over the frustration, heartbreak, anger, remorse, and depression isn’t easy either. Nonetheless, you’re going to make it through this. Lesson one, realize that separation may be an event, but getting over it is a process! Bad advice from your peers, relatives, and so-called friends is more than likely all, or at least part, of the reason you haven’t had the courage to let go and get on with your life. Your family and friends may have no clue of the stress, and extreme pain you suffer on a daily basis, or they may not know any different themselves. Besides, misery loves company. Many people prolong dissolution because they just don’t want to deal with confrontation. That is the equivalent of being too tired to take a bath because the longer you wait the more life stinks. If you’re reading this, that’s proof it’s time to break away from the pack. You will have to do this on your own and you can!
Kypris Aster Drake, M.S., M.A.
Specialty: Sex, Book Author
Location: CA, U.S
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