Approaching women fills guys with a huge amount of anxiety.  It’s the number one reason why guys and girls don’t get together as often as they would both like.  Sure a woman can approach a guy, but it goes against her natural wiring so very often…

She won’t.

And after a few rejections… a guy begins to think that women have a problem.  So he waits until he feels a “connection” before “going in”.  That means that men are alone a lot and women are a lone a lot!  Nobody is happy, but you’d think if you both wanted to get together it would be easy.

With the right knowledge it CAN be easy.  (read about it at… www.tips-for-flirting-with-women.com : pick up artist advice from an ultra secret community)

The single MOST important piece of the puzzle is something called a…

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Thinking about the first few minutes of a first date often sends potential daters into a spiral of despair.  There is excitement mixed with hope which is then topped off with a healthy mix of I’m-going-to-fail and I-should-just-give-up-now swirled together.  It’s no reason to give up hope if you’re willing to examine yourself and your actions, come up with a plan of action that will lead to success and follow through on it!

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If you feel like your relationship is in trouble and would like some help then read on – I’m going to take some time to help a few of you to get where you want to be!

This is a chance for a few readers to fix the problems they’re having but it is NOT a chance for a few readers to vent about their problems.  I don’t even care what your problems are (not even a little bit), I only care if you’re interested in fixing them.  So even though I need to hear each of your specifics I’m going to take a whack at what your problems are…

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When I tell someone my “power words” I always get that really, really long pause…the one that silently communicates, “Are you kidding me?”  I’m not kidding them and I’m not kidding you now.  There are words that have an effect on women, but they aren’t part of a secret language created by some love guru thousands of years ago.  When I first tell them to you you’ll recognize them, know them well, but still not understand why they are so powerful.  They are not ‘selling words’, they’re not subliminal, and they are not hypnotizing either.  They are simple words, because words are just a way to communicate ideas, but what you’re communicating isn’t the definition you’ll find in the dictionary.  These words are effective because an attitude comes with them, an attitude that will trigger attraction in women.  But when a guy hears this he’s thinking power means domination but that isn’t what these words do at all.  These words don’t shut women down…they open them up.  Open them to the idea that you might be someone worth talking to, someone worth hanging out with, and someone attractive.  And they can reawaken these feelings in someone that’s lost them.  Let’s start with the words and when you recover from your shock we’ll talk a little bit about why they are so powerful.

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Although they often don’t openly talk about it with guys most women have a memory of a man who created uncontrollable reactions in them.  Whose very touch sent shivers down their body and caused thrilling moments of both agony and ecstasy.  For a woman this total surrender, both body and soul, is a very overpowering experience and unfortunately it’s also an experience that doesn’t happen very often.  (All the women are nodding their heads in agreement right now!)  For most people the assumption is that this experience was the result of two people who just ‘fit’.   But in reality this uncontrollable reaction was created by an Alpha Male.  “What?” Some of the guys are probably saying right now.  “How can that be?  I’ve had great times with women!”  Trust me, you’ll know when you’re creating that kind of attraction in a woman and she’ll know it too.  Let’s explain why the Alpha Male is the sole owner of this state of euphoria in women.

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We’ve all had them. Everything was going so well and then . . . . We ran out of gas, as happened to a high school classmate of mine when he finally got a date with his crush (homecoming night or prom night, don’t remember which). The cat runs out the door while we’re saying good night, or his cat gets between us when we’re sitting on the couch ready to kiss. (Both happened to me.) The car battery dies, we get pulled over for speeding, our credit card gets declined after a very nice, expensive dinner, we find out we forgot to close our fly, a pre-date waxing goes completely wrong.

Here are some more horror stories shared by my brave and generous friends.

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