Most relationships have a honeymoon period where the other can do no wrong.  But what if you are starting to have some doubts?

If you have been dating someone for a few months you probably have started to see the real person and not just who they want you to see.  This may not be “romantic” but it is true.

Sheila an expert on East Indian Dating advises “Most people, whether unintentional or by design, try to only let the person they are newly dating see the best they have to offer.  Over time you both find out exactly what kind of person you are dealing with.”

Sometimes doubts start to pop up in your head early on.  When this happens within the first few months of a new relationship it is hard to know if you are being paranoid or have a good reason to doubt the relationship.

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Most of us know when we have received an insincere compliment.  We also know that giving compliments can be tricky.

How can you give a sincere sounding compliment without being overly enthusiastic?  If you do not know how to comfortably do this, you risk coming off as fake and the other person is not likely to appreciate it.

Ashok an expert on East Indian Dating suggests “Even if you meant what you said as a positive, a poorly timed or overly “gushy” compliment will be perceived as insincere.  It is almost better to not compliment someone at all if you have not learned how to do it properly.”

The Elements of a Sincere Compliment

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You are not in a fast food joint- you are entering the fine dining arena. Get your game on with some simple tips. Consider this your “playbook” and be a winner!

Sheila an expert in East Indian Dating advises “Fine dining is an experience you may not feel comfortable with. You will have to leave your ball cap at home. You may have to order wine but do not panic! Make reservations in advance since hot restaurants book up fast. There is probably a dress code so find out ahead of time. You might get seated if you show up too casually dressed but you can bet it will be a table by the kitchen. If you are running late be sure to call and let them know.”

Are you terrified by place settings, all those forks, knives and spoons? It is easy once you know what everything means. Since the plate will be in the middle, let’s work around it. Imagine a clock; your forks will be at 9 o’clock, knives and spoons at 3 o’clock, possibly desert utensils at twelve. If you get confused, just work from outside to inside toward your plate!

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Recent studies have shown that ninety percent of all communication is non-verbal. Ninety percent! So what you are NOT saying speaks volumes. Now you probably have been in a situation before where you have seen your dream guy and you would love to approach him but just can’t. Most women have the same feeling, and generally speaking, they prefer for the man approach them. So what can you do?

Sheila an expert on East Indian Dating advises “People unconsciously give off signals, especially non verbal ones. You just have to be aware enough to make sure you are giving off the ones that you intend. Chances are you are an attractive, highly intelligent woman who has a lot to offer the right man in her life, but you just haven’t met him yet. By refining your non-verbal skills you can improve the number of men who approach you for dates, thereby increasing the odds of meeting your right match. And more importantly, you can direct your non-verbal cues to men you want to meet, letting them know you are available to be approached.”

Here are some basic sure fire ways of letting a man that you are interested in know that you want to be approached.

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If you think your date may be lying to you, she probably is.  One of the most common mistakes men make is to ignore the warnings signs that their date isn’t telling the truth. Failing to recognize some signs she is lying may mean you end up regretting the time you wasted dating her in the first place.

The fact is that we all tell small white lies, usually to prevent another person from getting hurt.

Sheila an expert on East Indian Dating advises “If your date is crossing the line into more complex lying habits you really should pay attention.  You can always call her out but first you have to recognize the simple signs that her story does not add up.”

Your Date May Be Lying If:

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In our modern world, your personal information is easier for people to find than you may realize.  Take these steps if you want to make sure a potential partner does not find anything online that shows you in a negative light or you know it is time to clean up your act.

It has been all over the news and yet some people still think that their online information will not be seen by anyone other than their “friends”.  You are wrong.

A recent poll showed that almost 80% of  the people you meet to date will do search for online information about potential partners.  While less than 10% of people dating online realize this.

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Thanks to social networking sites such as Hi5, Badoo, and Facebook, the way people are meeting and dating has changed dramatically in the past few years. We all know how hard it is to meet someone new since it only happens if you go to a bar or a club hoping to make the right conversation and not get turned down. Of course you can also meet someone by getting introduced to them by either friends or family, but how often does that really happen?

Social networks have become sort of like an electronic bar or online club (like shaddi.com) in a way, as people all over the world are using these sites to meet and get to know new people daily. Add to that the fact that it is so easy and you will see why these sites have become the place to be.

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Finding a compatible partner to date is never easy. If you are looking for singles in the USA then the dating pool of compatible partners is even smaller. Use information that is available on the Internet to help you get ahead on the dating scene. If you do not have a specific woman that you are interested in, online dating sites are a great way to meet many women. By meeting different women at the same time this will help you find the person that’s the best fit for you. Of course the quality of the person is what is most important. If you want to find someone that is smart, beautiful, and funny it will take some effort online to learn where the right woman for you is. Before you sign up for a site, take the time to do some research. Perform a Google search to see how users rate or review different matchmaking sites. Join several online dating sites at the same time. You would not expect to meet the perfect woman for you by going to the same bar every Saturday, so cast a wider net and increase your chances of meeting someone perfect for you by seeing who’s online. Signing up for at least three sites will help you accomplish this.

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If you lack confidence when it comes to making conversation on a first date, relax because everything you need to know is right here. Making conversation is simple.

The main reason that men end up feeling that they blew their first date is because they forgot they were talking to a woman.  Girls expect to be the center of your attention so when you go off for an hour on a personal subject they get turned off quickly.

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Remember when the two of you could not get enough of each other?  You called or sent text messages all day long and you could not wait to get home at night?

What happened? You still love your significant other but the thrill is gone.  Men and women experience this in relationships but their approach to “fixing” the problem may be quite different.

During your courtship days, both of your brains were flooding your system with feel good chemicals.  Hey, that is just science so accept it.  Somewhere along the way the two of you established a relationship that you were both happy with.

Now though, it does seem a little boring.  The same old routine and all the hassles that each of you deal with at work.  No wonder you are feeling dissatisfied and wondering what to do.

The good news is that this is totally fixable, the news  you may not like as much is that you actually have some work to do to accomplish it.  The fact is that successful couples have been where you are and they can help you bring the sizzle back.

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