When I tell someone my “power words” I always get that really, really long pause…the one that silently communicates, “Are you kidding me?”  I’m not kidding them and I’m not kidding you now.  There are words that have an effect on women, but they aren’t part of a secret language created by some love guru thousands of years ago.  When I first tell them to you you’ll recognize them, know them well, but still not understand why they are so powerful.  They are not ‘selling words’, they’re not subliminal, and they are not hypnotizing either.  They are simple words, because words are just a way to communicate ideas, but what you’re communicating isn’t the definition you’ll find in the dictionary.  These words are effective because an attitude comes with them, an attitude that will trigger attraction in women.  But when a guy hears this he’s thinking power means domination but that isn’t what these words do at all.  These words don’t shut women down…they open them up.  Open them to the idea that you might be someone worth talking to, someone worth hanging out with, and someone attractive.  And they can reawaken these feelings in someone that’s lost them.  Let’s start with the words and when you recover from your shock we’ll talk a little bit about why they are so powerful.

“Silly, Feisty, and Cute!”  I know you were not expecting that trio, but, really, they are the Three Musketeers!  They allow you to radiate the fundamental quality that women judge a man’s attractiveness on.  Fun!  Fun is the surest way that a woman judges how fit a man is and she will often rely on this key trait to the exclusion of all others.  The fundamental communication in all relationships is what is called the Compliance Test.  All people test one another millions of times a day and at the same time are tested countless times a day by others.  It’s a natural instinct to comply as a default.  What does this mean?  When you think about getting dressed and something stands out – too shiny, too bright, too pink, torn, ugly, bulky, loud, etc – you instinctively want to get rid of it in order to comply to what your peers think you should be wearing.  This piece of evolution kept us safe for a long time.  When you stand out, predators tend to notice you and that’s not good!  When someone asks you to grab them a coke while you’re up – they are asking you to comply.  Perhaps that doesn’t sound like a big deal to you…but the more you comply to a woman, the less attracted they are to you.  Why?  Because if you are in control of your surroundings there is no need to comply.  The more powerful you are the less you tend to comply.  Think about if you would ask a rock star to get you a coke and further would he get it for you…

What does all this have to do with the Three Musketeers?

Because of the culture in the United States each of these words has an idea packaged with it in addition to its definition.  That idea will trigger the appropriate attitude in a guy, often without him even realizing, that help him to pass compliance tests given by women.  Most men are unused to triggering attraction in women – they follow their natural tendency to comply to a woman’s wishes, thus trying to please them rather than excite them.  When a woman becomes frustrated at something and vents at her guy she is expecting him to react to her – her annoyance is a compliance test.  Any response to her annoyance is compliance on his part.  However, if he responds that she’s “feisty!” and that he “likes it”, he does not comply and instead forces her to react to him – thus passing her test AND giving her a compliance test in return.  I sometimes use “cute” four or five times in a five minute conversation!  I’m not kidding…women love the playful element – which is silently screaming that you’re so safe, so in control that you can play around whenever you like.

These three words are often interchangeable and when a woman throws me for a loop I fall back on the Three Musketeers and they always save the day!  When she asks me where I have been I reply that she’s silly but that I think her being nosy is cute.  I pass her test and give her one in return – she must decide how to react and usually it’s laughter.  Laughter is compliance so when she is in the habit of laughing around you she is in the habit of complying to you!  When you divert her attention it isn’t to get away from sore subjects, rather these words keep attraction at an appropriate level so she’s thinking about how to ‘solve’ you rather than thinking about getting new shoes or what that guy she met yesterday thinks about her.

Try them out – watch the playfulness at work – watch her new found interest in what you’re saying – watch her attraction grow.

About the Author: Dan has travelled the world looking for life’s mysteries and secrets.  He’s been to film school, taught English in Japan, been thrown in jail in several countries, and walked some of the dark roads of life.  He’s known mesmerizing women and total, abject despair.  He loves the smell of fresh rain and the touch of a kindred soul.

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