There is a saying that people say when they think they find their Mr or Mrs right, “You are just too good to be true!”  Unfortunately, that saying is more true than any other saying out there. About 85-90% of people that saying is about, are way too good to be true. A person may find someone who can say all of the right things and do all of the right actions. Unfortunately, it is just a facade for someone who knows how to play “the game.”

The game is an exciting, yet stressful, of an emotional push and pull between two people and most of the time more than two people. The game is commonly used between one guy and two or more women. But, believe me, it happens in the gay world also! Tradionally guy meets girl. Guy tells girl everything she wants to hear. Girl falls for guy and things end in a fairy tale. Well, lets face the reality, fairy tales don’t always come true.

With the game, typically, guy meets girl. Guy meets another girl. Guy plays the two girls. Most guys are fairly smooth and know how to play this game very well. There are, however, some guys that are not so smooth. For instance, I know of two female friends of mine who were played by the same guy. This guy knew that they were friends and also were friends with me.

One friend was suspicious of the guy cheating, and, with another friend of mine. The guy had a certain popular networking site saying he was in a relationship with certain girl. Each week the name of the girl changed. My friend confronted me and I found out that she was right. The guy she thought was Mr. Perfect was cheating. I found out from a reliable source that he was cheating on, at least, two people.

The question running through my mind was, “how can I tell my friend that this guy is not who he says he is?” I was afraid of telling her, especially before her big birthday bash the following weekend. I knew she had to know before the birthday bash, but I was unable to find a suitable time to tell her. Luckily, everything had worked out in the end. My friend that the guy was cheating with had talked to the mutual friend of ours and told her everything. My friend that the guy had cheated with told him off and basically wants nothing to do with him, neither does my other friend.

In conclusion, my advice is to always be on your guard. Yes, I do believe true love is out there. However, there are a lot of fakes out there. Also, as hard as the truth may be, it is always best to be upfront and honest if you see someone being cheated on or being a victim of “the game.” Assure them that you are their friend and want them happy. Everything in life has a funny way of working out in the end. The results may not always be what we want, but everything happens for a reason. I hope this helped. May you all have sunny days and starry nights xoxo.

About the Author: Cole is a 22 year old college student and former performer of Walt Disney World resort in Orlando, FL. Cole has performed the roles of various princes, including Prince Charming. Cole currently lives in Memphis, TN working at a popular radio station and finishing up his degree in Law. Cole wants to specialize in Corporate Law and Political Science eventually running for Congress one day. Cole looks forward to answering any question he can and talking to you all.

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