1) Romance Never Goes Out of Style:

Celebrate and nurture your love with romance.  Surprise your partner with the classic romantic evening that never goes out of style.  Light some candles, put on sensual mood setting music, open a bottle of wine.  Order out or cook up your partner’s favorite meal.  Turn off the TV, the cell phones, the computers.  Just take the time to focus completely on each other.  Gaze into each others’ eyes, talk and listen – fall in love again!

2) Time for a Play date:

Instead of just your regular dinner date or dinner and a movie make it a play date.  Yes, play with your partner.  Doing something fun together livens up your relationship in all sorts of ways.  Don’t be shy or embarrassed just go for it!  Bowling, miniature golf, ice skating, a driving range – whatever you want – just do it and have some real fun together.

3) Let’s Date:

Lots of times we become too comfortable with someone. Don’t get me wrong this comfortable feeling is great but you’ve got to remember to keep your love alive and growing.  Did you used to go to a special restaurant, hear a certain band?  Make the plan and go back out on a date together.  Set and keep a regular date night; once a month or once a week, whatever works for you.  Having time as a couple will help you keep it real!

4) Touch Me:

Ooooohhhh.  One of my favorites, touch!  Touch is essential for our body, heart and soul.  Who better to partake in this sensual experience than your significant other?  Massage increases circulation, relieves aches and pains and soothes you.   Choose a room, a cozy spot; bed, floor.  Lay down a few blankets, some pillows, whatever will help you be completely comfortable.  Light some candles, turn on some relaxing tunes, grab some massage oil and get going.  Pick an end and work your way slowly to the other.  Gently caressing, rubbing and soothing your partner.  Remember to take turns.

Tip:  Pour the massage oil between your hands and briskly rub them for 20 seconds.  It will warm the oils for your partner.  Let it drip erotically onto your partner this way.

5) Spice it up:

Tired of the same ole, same ole?  Do you pretty much know the ‘routine’ of foreplay, and love making in your relationship?  Know which hand will go where and exactly when?  Find yourself thinking about your ‘to do’ list when you should be doing some hard core toe curling?  Sounds like it’s time to spice it up a bit.  Trying something new can be a little bit intimidating – don’t worry!  Even if you fall flat on your face your partner will be excited at your effort and stimulated that you dared something new.  No need to get crazy with whips and chains either.  If your partner is always the one to initiate the deed then you do start it.  If you always do it missionary position then jump on top for a change.  If you want something more; change up the place.  Try out the shower, kitchen table, a chair or outside.  You get the idea – mix it up!  Any change will kick in some life and energize your relationship in amazing ways!

About the Author: Bella is a professional writer with more than six years of experience specializing in love, relationships and dating from the Philadelphia area .  Bella has learned about love from life, books and working for professional love and relationship coaches.  Despite her experience working in love and relationships she says that life has been the best teacher of all.  Bella believes in following your heart and spirit in all you do - especially with love!

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