Rose Asked:
“My husband works part time and I work full time graveyard at the same retail store. We have a mutual co-worker who has now become our next door neighbor. In the short time we’ve known each other, we’ve done a lot for one another. She has a boyfriend (who is not good to her) and is flirtatious, but I consider her my friend. Because she has no car and lives nextdoor now, my husband gives her rides to work in the morning when he is coming to pick me up at the end of my shift. They are both home all night and alone most of the time (except for when her boyfriend is there). I hadn’t thought about it until today when she came over and we were visiting when she brought up a new purse I had hanging on the wall and asked me where I got it. When I told her, she said yeah she had already seen it when she was here one morning “fucking” Buck (my husband)…then went onto another subject….but shortly after, she said it again. She also spoke about how other people don’t look past my husband’s kinda messy old man appearance, but she sees him in a different way when she looks into his eyes when they talk. It bothered me the rest of the day till I text her and asked her what specific morning it was that they had sex. (I had a strange feeling one morning when they came into work together)…..she replied how confused she was….then she later replied that she was omg just kidding! I hypothetically asked my husband if someone joked about having sex with me to him what he would think. He said he would strangle both of them. What does this mean? Why would she say that to me? Have they had sex? I’m sure my husband wouldn’t tell me. One way or the other, why would she say such a thing to me? Joking or not. What does this mean? Should I just look past it or? I don’t know if something is going on or not. Please share your thoughts with me.”
- Rose (51, Tahoe Vista, CA)
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Hey ‘Rose
I would have a talk with your friend and explain to her how inappropriate her comments were and that you don’t appreciate it.
I would also make sure that you take very good care of your husband’s sexual needs because this gal has a screw loose and would have no problem I think taking care of his needs.
It sound as if your husband is on the up and up. I think that the woman’s boyfriend should be taking her to work though.
John Wilder
marriagecoach1@yahoo.com
marriagecoach1.com sex and relationship blog
Author of a soon to be published book on Amazon called: SEX EDUCATION FOR ADULTS, SECRETS TO AMAZING SEX AND HAPPILY EVER AFTER TOO
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